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Bahaya AIR MASAK pada bayi di bwh 6 bulan

2012-01-30T14:31:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum n selamat thari kwn2

saje je nak share cerita ni...

Teringat masa berpantang dulu, lidah aisya ada selaput macam kerak susu.. masa kat rumah mak seminggu awal berpantang tu, jiran kata beli ubat di farmasi n sapukan pada lidah aisya.. alhamdulilah, memang berkesan! n rupanya kene selalu bersihkan lidah n gusi baby masa tue guna tuala basah.. (i dun know dulu)

Tapi, sesuatu yg TIDAK BENAR ialah :-

"Ada jugak aku bagi aisya air masak, atas sebab2 seperti -> desakan orang tua, nak kasi kuning si anak cepat baik, bilas tekak anak lepas minum susu, supaya anak senang buang air etc."

FAKTA/ RESULTnya aisya selalu kembung perut n nangis2.. ape lagi GRIP WATER la jwpnyer! kesian aisya masa tu...

along n mak aku cakap

" ish, mana bole bagi baby air masak, kembung tau.. baby kan kecik lagi.. tersedak kang cmana??"

Harini baru terjumpa fakta ni n nak share pada semua

Semoga info2 ini dapat menyedarkan ibu bapa kenapa pemberian air masak tidak digalakkan kepada bayi berumur 6 bulan ke bawah.

Merencatkan Tumbesaran

Perut bayi sangat kecil. Apabila perut bayi telah dipenuhi air, bayi akan merasa kenyang dan kurang berminat untuk menyusu susu ibu. Akibatnya segala khasiat susu ibu tidak dapat diberikan secara optima kepada bayi. Ini boleh menjejaskan pertumbuhan dan kesihatannya kerana air tidak mengandungi sebarang khasiat. Di samping itu, kajian mendapati pemberian air glukos pada minggu pertama kelahiran dikaitkan dengan kehilangan berat badan yang banyak lalu merencatkan tumbesaran.

Merencatkan Akal

Memberi air kepada bayi di awal kelahiran didapati meningkatkan tahap bilirubin di dalam darah. Menurut pakar Laktasi dari Kanada, Anne Kirkham, pemberian air akan memburukkan lagi keadaan bayi yang diserang jaundis (sakit kuning) sehingga menyebabkan ‘kernicterus’ iaitu Terencat Akal’. Bayi juga akan menjadi bertambah mengantuk dan lesu tidak bermaya.

Mengancam Nyawa

Air boleh membawa kuman. Ini menyebabkan bayi terdedah kepada cirit birit jika kebersihan tidak dititikberatkan. Pencemaran boleh berlaku di pelbagai peringkat, seperti air diperolehi dari sumber yang tidak selamat ataupun bekas air dan puting yang tidak bersih. Air akan menghakis salutan pelindung penyakit yang dihasilkan oleh susu ibu dan ini akan mendedahkan bayi kepada pelbagai jangkitan.

Mengakibatkan Sawan Tarik

Air sangat berbahaya jika diberikan kepada bayi terutamanya yang berumur di bawah 5 minggu. Terlalu banyak minum air akan mencairkan garam di dalam darah bayi. Ini akan mengakibatkan suhu badan yang rendah, kembung atau sawan tarik. Sindrom ini dipanggil ‘Oral Water intoxication’.

Sebenarnya susu ibu sudah mencukupi untuk bayi tanpa perlu ditambah air atau cecair lain kerana susu ibu mengandungi 88% air. Kolostrum yang terhasil di awal penyusuan dapat membantu membersihkan perut bayi dan mengelakkan sembelit. Tiada air tambahan diperlukan untuk proses tersebut. Oleh itu..beri bayi anda susu ibu sekerapnya.

LEGOLAND Malaysia @ Nusajaya

2012-01-24T08:43:00.001+08:00

Legoland akan di buka akhir tahun 2012 (on 3rd Quater katanya) untuk family fun and adventure activities la..ada lebih dari 40 rides n benda2 menarik!!

yg i tau, theme park ni di divide into 7 areas! wow lagik! termasukla atas tanah, atas angin n atas air yer.

MINILAND pon ada tau..build up small famous Asian town and landscapes termasuk taj mahal n KLCC- sumenye bole gerak2 tau..

yang bestnya LEGOLAND Malaysia ni ialah!!

Annual Pass

Purchase your unlimited entry to LEGOLAND^® Malaysia now and enjoy unlimited entry on all regular opening days up to 3 months in year 2012 and the entire year 2013!

SPECIAL PROMOTION PRICE (for a limited time only)

Adult : RM 195.00
Children (age 3-11) : RM 150
Senior Citizen (age 60 and above) : RM 150

plus RM5 n RM 3 so equal to RM203 for adult!!

NAK BELI TAPI.... yang menjadi kemuskilan saya ialah LEGOLAND Malaysia will be expected more than a billion visitor in opening year!! huhuhu cane kalo saya da beli tkt for annual pass tapi still ramai org dalam thn tu kan? huhu rugila sebab tak larat betol nak Q macam kat Universal studio Spore tu.. panas cuaca kat msia tak macam kat oversea..nak q LAMA PON HOKEY!!

so, sapa2 yg nak beli, silakan!! saya ada Aisya, so berpk gakla nak beli ke tak sebab kalo bwk aisya for sue serabut! tapi nak bawak aisya!! caner?

Renovation Cost For New House

2012-01-14T10:32:00.001+08:00

Assalamualaikum =)

da beberapa bulan cita pasal Rumah Baru Sayep!

tapi...

kali ni nak cite pasal $$ yg kami da abiskan utk rumah baru ni (Just nak share)

1. 1st thing yang kami buat ialah GRILL (powder coating)- 1 rumah costnya RM 3,000
saya buat dgn kwn sekolah saya LATEF

ini cth powder coating yg dia buat

2. 2nd thing - g Segamat @ Nagoya buat langsir utk satu rumah.-upah jahit n langsir dalam RM300 (murah kan)

3.3rd thing, - buat Wiring . barang sume beli sendiri

- lampu cantek (Avalon)-dalam RM450
-lampu biasa n kipas (kedai elictric supply @ area Johor -dalam RM1200 + RM720)
(actually 1 celing fan with remote (paasonic @ KDK is about RM245, KDK biasa putih tu dalam RM122, lampu Kalimantan[twin] @ RM15.50, lampu kalimantan [single] RM12.50, lampu kalimantan kecik [single] dalam RM9.50)
- upah pasang dgn kwn ayah I dalam RM400

4. then beli rail langsir yang biasa tu dalam RM77 + kayu (langsir ala2 ring) dalam RM119

5. next step nak kumpul duit utk buat table top + kabinet wet n dry kitchen) -dalam RM5k gak kene standby =(

6. after tu, bole pk nak masukkan perabot + ice box sumer (duit kene standby dulula hokey!!)

aisya

2011-12-27T09:25:00.000+08:00

Kitchen Cabinet

2011-12-11T14:08:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum....

update lagi pasal Kitchen Cabinet idamanku =p

last few weeks ajak designer g ukur kitchen cabinet kat wet kitchen i yg comel hitu.. yg mana? yg ini!

Add caption

kecik je kalau nak ikotkan.. 8" x 8" pon rasanya tak smpai..

angan2... nak buat mcm ni =p

kalau bole yg simple mungkin + bersesuaian dgn saiz badan org nak nak dok kat dapor yg kecik tue...
ok.. tadi ukur n dapat quotation trus.. saya buat L shape dalam 6 1/2 " (combination L shape tu) bawah sahaja ye...

Choice 1: table top is about RM2000++
Choice 2: kabinet n alas dgn tiles is about RM1900++

hmm w/out free sink + hub =( alaaa.. kiter rasa mahalla sebab only 6 1/2 " ajer...

takpe.. kite servey lagi k..

grill oh grill.. kwn i yg buat grill tu inform grill i still blom siap sebab nak cat powder coating blom selessai di sebabkan cuaca ujan..huhuhu

hmm.. da survey kipas n lampu tembok.. santek!!! tapi belom beli lagi..

one more!!! langsir kiter da siap! yg blom beli railnyer aje =P

Udang Black Papper

2011-12-11T13:59:00.000+08:00

Resepi yang sangat simple!!

sebenarnya en hubby demam n request Bubur + telur dadar.. memandangkan telur kat umah da kehabisan stok, saya pon pk resepi lain...

dalam esbok ada udang jer =p

so, search resepi kat SINI n tadaaa!! itu le hasilnyer.. hubby kiter kalo selsema suka makan black papper..

cara2 memasak resepi ni... kite tambah tolak (buang sayur n tambah kentang)

1. goreng udang n kentang (i goreng dgn tepung) n ketepikan
2. tumis bwg puteh (ketuk) + bwg merah (ptg dadu) + serbuk lada hitam sampai nek bau -ayat standard
3. masukkan udang + kentang tadi n goreng sampai sebati
4. masukkan sos cili + sos lada hitam + kicap + gula n kacau le
5. tadaaa siap!

sila makan!!!

Ombak Rindu

2011-12-11T08:31:00.001+08:00

Salam sumer,

da tengok ombak rindu tak? i da tengok semalam =p

sebenarnya i da lama tak tengok muvie sejak b4 kawin sampai ini muvie yg 1st.. so, terkejuk beruk gak bila beli tiket da mahal?

so sweet!! dulu mmg baca novel dia tapi masa zaman sekolah2 dulu.. so da ingat detail cerita tu.. bila tgk muvie dia, ha kau! sedap tu...

lagi2la part yg ada aaron aziz =) mule2 b4 tengok, i cakap kalo remy ishak lagi best. tapi sangkaan ku meleset sebab Aaron Aziz sangatla best!!!! maya karin hokeh juga sebab dia da sangat2 improved!! izah..izah..

lisa a.k.a. mila? best juga sebab dia comelll!!! kesian kene pakai high heel sebab nak nampak model! tapi itoke... seme memjadi!!

thumb uppp.. kwn2, bole belanja 2nd time tak?? huhu

Its time to relax with Garment Steamer!!

2011-11-13T19:05:00.002+08:00

Cuci mata dulu hokeh!!

last friday 11.11.11 sayep g Home Fair @ Persada Johor. bak kata org, jgn tak catat sejarah on Lucky day, Lucky number nie yer...

I pon beli garment Steamar nie.. from Total Image Brand.. kebetulan plak iron board patah on Thursday, mmg pk dis wekend nak kene beli 1 lagi iron board.. sekali tu pk2 balik masa apek sales tu buat demo, terus terpedaya... iman tak kuat huhuhuhu...

FYI,

ada 2 types ye

1. Steam Iron

2. Garment steamer

Its dependsla.. kalau just suke iron atas board, pls buy steam iron..if bersifat pemalas,iron baju macam kat butik, sekali iron, 3-4 bundle, banyak! suke tengok tv n cepat penat (ngade!) plsla beli Garment Steamer!!

harini, g ambik barang tu.. Aisya takot..bagus!! pasni takdela dia jadi kak nam sebok nak iron baju je..

kenapa saya beli benda ni? ok, silakan baca the followings notes:-

1. jimat space - takyah dah nak pk iron board lagi!!

2. tak terbakar baju @ tudung.. (pernah kan? kan?)

3. tak yah nak sental gila2 kat baju..

4. user friendly la..- bole iron depan tv =}

5. save time, money and even a little bit of effort =p

6. takyah anta baju dry clean sebab garment steamer ni bole dry clean juge =p

7. effect yg bagus sebab tak rosakkan fabrics

lagi..lagi & lagi advantages!!!

A garment steamer offers a portability such as handheld/travel-size steamers. Portable/compact steamers allow maneuverability from room to room. Uprights are designed to take up less closet space

A portable/compact steamer is made with a detachable base for carrying as well as a hook for hanging on doorknobs while using the nozzle. It provides 20-minute steam time, a fixed T-nozzle, lint brush and crease tool. When returned to the base, the steamer automatically shuts off.

An upright comes with a collapsible pole for hanging garments, foot-activated power switch, smaller base for optimal space-saving and larger wheels for maneuverability. Higher-priced uprights are equipped with crease tools, lint removers, fur brushes and handheld pressing boards.

An iron applies pressure to the fabric, flattening fibers to give a crisp look. Garment steamers fluff fibers, giving them a soft, clean look that is longer lasting and requires fewer dry cleaning visits.

Clothes steamers eliminate allergens. The heat in vapor steam kills dust mites and germs embedded in your clothing and linens.

Clothes steamers use natural cleansers. Steamers work with water—and just water. No soaps or chemically treated cleaning products are needed.

Clothes steamers come in all sizes. While industrial-sized steamers are left for professional dry cleaners, hospitals, and clothing boutiques, plenty of steamers are perfect for the home or your suitcase.

Clothes steamers are easy to use. Simply fill the boiler with water, plug the steamer in, and, when you can see steam escaping from the head, hold the head an inch or so away from fabric. When on the go—say, in a hotel room—clothes can be steamed while still on the hanger.
Be sure, though, to check your clothing's care labels before steaming; while steaming is ideal for fragile fabrics that would not withstand ironing, other delicates, such as silk, are very heat-sensitive and might be damaged by a steamer's vapor.

However!!!!

Learning to use a Garment Steam Cleaner does take a little time and bit of patience but, once you have mastered the skill you will be surprised how fast you get an entire basket of clothes wrinkle free.

Remember!!!!

According to Consumer Reports, a higher price doesn't mean better performance. Compare products, features and prices, and check with a reputable consumer site to see which product carries its seal of approval.

I Love Dis!!!!

Steamers are safe to use on all fabrics, including silk and cashmere, and the steam's temperature keeps mattresses and pillows free of dust mites, thus reducing allergens and bacteria up to 99.9 percent. Steamers are a good investment because of the potential reduction in dry cleaning bills.

House: Things to do

2011-11-12T10:09:00.000+08:00

After 3 weeks dapat kunci, me my self decide on the followings:-)

Important (1st priority)
---------------------------

1. Grill
2. Wiring
3. Curtain
4. Fridge
5. Table Top (simple one)
6. Meja makan
7. VIP perabot
8. Tukar lock

Not so important (2nd priority)
1. Kabinet at dry kitchen
2. Alarm system
3. Auto gate
4. Tinted window
5. Perabot 1 rumah (wink!)

So kiteorg pon survey2la benda yg most VIP tu. bukan jauh sangat pon.. kat http://www.mudah.my/ aje.. hikhikhik

INSPECTION OF OUR NEW HOUSE

2011-11-09T00:01:00.001+08:00

Okey, after dapat kunci dgn exictednya ktorg pon tengok umah tu!! hehehe

tengok aisya tinggalkan mama dia

dia yg paling exited!!

dining n dry kitchen

karat kan?

one of defect yg perlu report

ni pon sama

hobi main plug

comel tak garden?

rumah I,4 dari hujung

entrance

so, on 1st day tu Our focus is on the followings:-

1. Wall surfaces. Make sure they are even, especially at places where they have hacked to install additional points.
2. Paint job on walls, ceiling and doors. Must be even, no drips. Also check where ceilings and walls meet. No overlapping of paint.
3. Tiles - any missing ones? Especially mosaic ones in bathroom.
4. Locks.
5. Windows.
6. Pipes, plumbing.. any leaks?
7. Doors hinges and frames - have they been properly installed? Any gaps?
8. The bits between tiles. If they're supposed to be white, make sure they're all white and not grey in certain areas.
9. And lastly, any cracks.

After fill the complain form, ktorg balik!!!

Rumah Baru

2011-11-08T23:39:00.000+08:00

Assalamualaikum w.b.t

Da lama tak update belog atas sebab2 di bawah:-
1. sebok
2. busy
3. penat
4. berebut pc dgn en s + aisya

tapi nak update jgk n sekadar berkongsi cerita ...

last few months bila da stat keje, saya berangan2 n mula pk nak beli umah sendiri.. sebab umah sekarang quarters n tak dapat nak buat ape2. even nak cat pon tak bole...so, we decide to buy new house.. mula2 mmg nak beli sub-sale sebab dgn harga market value kdg2 bole mark-up lagi, kita bole beli umah yg da ready made which include renovation, grill n so on.. (kdg2 bole dapat cash buta2 aje). tapi sebab hubby serik kene tipu dgn org kita, so we decide utk beli umah baru n renovate ikot kemampuan sendiri..

tadaaa!!!

rumah baru kiter beli kat Seri Austin @ RM300K.. 20 x 70 from UEM Land

akhir bulan 10 haritu dapat kunci n kena bayar extra charges of:-
1. penalty of late payment (bayaran standard developer konon2nyer kite lambat disburse loan)
2. TNB @ RM270
3. Cukai tanah @ 5% from OMV
4. Security guard deposit @ 1.5 years
5. Deposit renovation (refundable)

bla3.. dapat RM2000 gakla abis masa ambik kunci tu... lepas dapat kunci benda pertama ktorg tengok ialah defect umah tu..

standardla kan.. tapi bole dibaiki after buat complain!

yg pastinya I loikee sebab umah menghadap hutan sesuaila dgn sifat I yg tak gemar sangat face 2 face dgn jiran..kikikiki.. cop!! jiran sebelah kiri I Malay k... bole geng!!

Top Things to Look for When House Hunting

2011-10-11T10:10:00.001+08:00

222If you're thinking about buying a new home, there are a things to consider before you make an offer:-
* Please be reminded that the money is OURS $$$$ betol tak?

Note:Our budget is around RM250K-RM300K

kami da bayar depo RM1k for this house -Nusa Idaman

*only picture - House at Setia Tropika pon kami da try tapi takde rezeki

at last!! we decide to consider the followings and be more FOCUS!!!

Location,

They say that the 3 most important things to think about when buying are home are location, location, location. You can live with almost any imperfection in a home if you love the neighborhood and your neighbors. You can change almost everything else. But, once bought, you cannot change your home's location. When you go house hunting, consider any potential home's proximity to your work, the charm of the neighborhood, how the home is situated on the lot, ease of access, noise from neighbors, traffic, or pets, and access to parks, shopping, schools, and public transportation.

Situation Factors

Beyond location, look at the particular site of the home. If the home is on a hill does it have a view, a walkout basement, or lots of stairs to climb? Do neighbors' windows look directly into the home? Is the yard suitable for kids, pets, gardening, or other uses? Is access to the property safe regarding driveway elevation, stairs up to (or down to) the front door?

Check Out the Neighborhood

* Jgn takut utk tanya sales person sapa jiran kita n the whole owner yg beli umah area umah yg kita nak beli tu ya!!

Be sure the neighborhood, and not just the house, meets your expectations. They say that you should own the smallest home in the nicest neighborhood that you can afford. You'll have a great view! Drive around on week days and weekends, during the day and in the evening. Are homes in the neighborhood consistent in size and features? Do the neighbors keep the yards clean and tidy or are there old cars and trash around? Is the neighborhood safe enough for people to walk, run, or bike and are there children playing in the yards?

Consider a Home's Curb Appeal

Your home should reflect your lifestyle. Something simpler and more contemporary might be in order. Look at the exterior features. A brick home is easier to maintain. Is the roof in good condition? Is the landscaping attractive and are the sidewalks leading to the home safe?

Size and Floor Plan

You may be thinking about buying your dream home. But is your dream home impractical? Do you really need 4 bedrooms and 4 baths when you live alone? A large home can give you the extra space you've always wanted for. But you'll pay higher heating bills and have higher taxes. It will take more furniture to furnish and money to decorate. Think about how the new home space will be used and whether it will fit your lifestyle now and in the future.

Bedrooms and Bathroom

Decide how many bedrooms and bathrooms you really need, and only look at homes that meet your criteria. An extra bedroom is always a plus, as it can be used for a guest room.

The Kitchen

Wet and Dry? If the kitchen is the heart of your home, don't settle for a home with a kitchen that just won't work. You can always remodel, but it's very costly. Can you just replace cabinet faces and countertops? Will an inexpensive makeover be sufficient? Don't worry about appliances, as they can usually be easily replaced.

Closets and Storage

Older homes tend to have little closets and not a lot of storage space. Newer homes tend to have big closets and lots of storage.

Windows and Lighting

Do you love a bright sunny room or do you love privacy? Look at a home with light and sunshine in mind. Look at the locations of electrical outlets and fixtures. Will they accommodate your lighting needs? Is there recessed lighting in the kitchen, cove lighting in the family room and a lovely chandelier in the dining room? If not, you can add them later, but it's nice to have it in place when you move in.

Finishing Touches

Sometimes the simplest home looks spectacular because of the installation of moldings, hardware and a fireplace. If these elements are important to you, look for them while house hunting or be ready to add them after you move in.

If you keep these specific elements of a home in mind, your house hunting will be more successful, and you'll likely end up with the home of your dreams -- for now, that is!

Teaching Kids the Value of Money

2011-09-16T14:26:00.000+08:00

Money is a hard thing to come by these days. Jobs in this world are scarce because everyone is looking for one and the competition is stiff. You have to be at your best in finding a job and holding on to your money. The same goes for children. Parents should spend some time teaching children about money.

Is it necessary to teach them about money? You bet. Children want to have money of their own, and they should. But, teaching them the right way is the most important thing. Money has value, and, if not used wisely, can be gone in an instant. This economy is a very good example of that.

Too many times families that have good cash flow just lavish their children with money and objects. And, when the money is gone, they just give them more. When they become adults they haven't learned how to deal with less, and therefore are poor managers of money.

Those that are taught at an early age how to save their money, and spend it only when needed are going to be able to live on their own it leaner times. It is these children who are told to save their money for a rainy day and not spend needlessly that will survive in hard times.

Teaching children about money is a very wise thing to do for their future. It ensures they will become responsible and good money managers. Not teaching them the value of the dollar and saving will make sure that they are irresponsible and will rely on others to give them whatever they want. Thus they do not become independent and resourceful. Parents have a duty to their children to speak to them about proper spending and saving. A financial advisor such as Jim Potter, can give you advice on how to teach your children about the value of money.

Belanja Hari Raya

2011-08-26T05:34:00.000+08:00

Salam,

cerita pasal belanja hari raya...saya sangat boros hokeh!

mentang2la thn ni sy ada gaji sndr..huhuhu

Baju aisya je da dekap RM600 sy abis..huhuhu pas raya, pokai..hihihi..maklumla baju budak pmpuan sume mengegar Qolbu! huhuhu aisya plak suke je try...

korg cmana, ok tak?

Selamat Berpuasa Semua

2011-08-01T04:56:00.002+08:00

Salam!!!

Selamat menyambut bulan yang mulia ini, Bulan Ramadhan =) Semoga kita dapat berubah menjadi yang lebih baik dari semalam.. Insyallah, amin

Tiram Indoor Water Theme Park

2011-06-05T18:24:00.000+08:00

semalam kiter ada cakap pasal nak g ulu tiram Water theme park!

ok..kiter pegi tadi kul (dari rumah) 10-230(sampai umah).. hehehe jap je kn..
okey fees masuk RM20 n aisaya FOC..gud job! hahaha

best tau sebab besar n TAK ITAM.. kan ke Indoor...selalu kalau g resort2 mst itam sebab open air..hadus..tu yg lomah tu..tapi ini tidak ye tuan puan..sangat seronok..betol kata org, air dia sejuk sgt.. aisya blom stgh jam da gigil..huhuhu

ayah dia ajak balik sebab takot demam plak.. tapi okla..aisya pon suke!

Aisya @ 1 years and 3 months =)

2011-06-04T21:59:00.000+08:00

tada!!!

aisya da pandai cakapla mama..

says

1. no..no..no..
2. syyhhh..
3.atah
4.ayah
5.mama
6. maman
7. nyum
8. helo!
9. bye-bye
10.eyes

my bufday present from Mama =)

ayah baru beli, trus dia patahkan n pakai!..maybe ini fesyen yg dia nak! haha

si gemok!

ok Mama, i'm ready!

Driving at Tesco

ini gaya merajok

ok, da penat!

hehe.. aisya2.. rindu betol kat aisya.. tapi nakal juge kadang2..huhu

Tiram Taman Air Tertutup (Indoor Water Park)

2011-06-04T21:33:00.000+08:00

helo.. assalamualaikum!

tadi tengok aisya men dgn Boya dia tetibe ckp kay hubby..

sayep: sian aisya da beli boya tapi tak dpt men air!
hubby:sok kite g Today's nak?
sayep: hah? buat pe? taknak r.. baik g Tesco ke...
hubby: bukanla.. Today's yg kat Tiram tu.. ada theme park ler.. tu pon tak tau.. best wooo
sayep: eh? tak tau pon....
hubby: g r carik tak tenet..

after explorasi di lakukan...

aahla.. name dia today's..huhuhu macam best aje kan.. explore lagik, jumpe belog ainazliena yg cite pasal tempat yg hubby aku ajak tu... mmg best!

ok pe..dari pd nak tggu g jauh2 tu alamatnye tak taula bile..

Fakta:

Tiram Indoor Water Park

(Indoor Water Park) yang pertama di negeri Johor dibina dalam kompleks beli belah Today’s Mall, bandar Ulu Tiram, Jalan Kota Tinggi yang juga merupakan laluan utama ke Desaru dan juga Mersing serta pantai Timur.

Tiram Indoor Water Park juga mudah di lawati dengan menggunakan lebuhraya baru Senai-Desaru.

Tiram indoor Water Park mempunyai kolam dengan keluasan 26,000 kaki persegi disamping permainan-permainan lain boleh menampung sehingga 1000 pengunjung dalam satu masa.
Bayaran masuk yang dikenakan ialah seperti berikut;

	Hari Biasa	Hujung Minggu & Cuti Awam
Dewasa	RM 15.00	RM 20.00
Kanak-Kanak (4-12 tahun)	RM 10.00	RM 15.00

Pengunjung-pengunjung Tiram Indoor Water Park juga boleh menikmati kemudahan-kemudahan lain yang disediakan di Today’s Mall seperti panggung Wayang, Karaoke, food outlet disamping membeli-belah.

Jom korang g esok!!!!

Getting your toddler to listen

2011-05-31T23:23:00.002+08:00

Toddlers are just like the rest of us — they don't always listen. In fact, at their age they need you to teach them how to pay attention. "But what often happens," says Roni Leiderman, associate dean of the Family Center at Nova Southeastern University in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, "is that parents say something 10 times, then they start counting down to punishment. What this does is actually condition the child not to listen until the tenth time."

By not listening, your child is getting your attention (though constant nagging isn't the best form of it). But being a good listener helps your child learn more effectively, heed danger signals, get along better with you and her teachers and other adults she'll be expected to respect, and make better friends. There are many simple strategies that, when consistently followed, will teach toddlers the skills they need to become good listeners. And, as Leiderman points out, "It's never too early to begin teaching your child. A toddler may not listen as well as a 5-year-old, but she still has lots of these skills."

Get on her level.
As every parent realizes sooner or later, bellowing from a great height (much less from the other room) rarely has the desired effect. Squat down or pick your child up, so you can look her in the eye and grab her attention. She'll listen much more closely if you sit down next to her at the breakfast table when reminding her to eat up her cornflakes, or perch on her bed at night when telling her you're about to turn out the light.

Be clear.
State your message clearly, simply, and authoritatively. Your child will zone out if you harp on a topic too long. It's hard to find the point of a wordy message such as "It's really cold outside, and you've been sick lately, so I want you to put on your sweater before we go to the store." On the other hand, "It's time to get your sweater" is unmistakable. And don't phrase something as a question if your child doesn't actually have a choice. "It's time to climb into your car seat" has a lot more impact than "Come climb into your car seat, okay, honey?"

Follow through — quickly.
Make it clear that you mean what you say, and don't make threats — or promises — you won't keep. If you tell your 2-year-old, "You need to drink some milk at dinnertime," don't waffle five minutes later and let her have juice instead. If you warn her she'll have a time-out if she hits her brother, give her that time-out when the blow comes. Make sure your spouse or partner shares your rules and respects them as well, so that neither of you undermines the other.

In addition, make your follow-through speedy. You would never expect to have to shout "Don't run across the street!" five times before your child heeded you. Similarly, don't fall into the trap of repeating less urgent instructions, such as "Set your cup on the table," over and over again before expecting your child to comply. Gently guide your child's hand to place the cup on the table so she knows exactly what you want her to do.

Reinforce your message.
It often helps to follow up your verbal statement with a number of other kinds of messages, especially if you are trying to pull your child away from an absorbing activity. Say "Time for bed!" and then give a visual cue (flicking the light switch on and off), a physical cue (laying a hand on her shoulder to gently pull her attention away from her doll and toward you), and a demonstration (steering her toward her bed, pulling down the covers, and patting the pillow).

Give warnings.
Give your child some advance notice before a big change will take place, especially if she's happily involved with toys or a friend. Before you're ready to leave the house, tell her, "We're going to leave in a few minutes. When I call you, it's time to come out of the sandbox and wash your hands."

Give realistic instructions.
"If you tell a 2-year-old to put his toys away, he looks around the room and says, 'Sheesh!'" says Leiderman. "Give him realistic tasks, like 'Let's put the yellow blocks away.' Then you can make it into play: 'Good, now let's put the blue blocks away.'"

Motivate.
Yelling orders may produce results (in some children), but no one will enjoy the process. Most children respond best when you treat them with confident good humor. For example, occasionally use a silly voice or a song to deliver your message. You might sing "Now it's time to brush your teeth" to the tune of "London Bridge," for example. Stress the benefits of complying over mere dutifulness ("Brush your teeth and then you can pick out your favorite nightgown" instead of "You have to brush your teeth or you'll get cavities" or "Brush your teeth NOW!"). Praise her when she finishes brushing, with "Good listening!"

The good humor, affection, and trust you demonstrate to your child when speaking to her this way will make her want to listen to you, because she'll know that you love her and think she's special. This is an important aspect of even those strategies that require firmness. Giving straightforward, authoritative instructions does not mean you have to be crabby — such messages are much more powerful when accompanied by a hug or a smile. Then your child learns that paying attention to you is worthwhile.

Model good behavior.
Preschoolers will be better listeners if they see that you are a good listener, too. Make it a habit to listen to your child as respectfully as you would to any adult. Look at her when she talks to you, respond politely, and let her finish without interrupting whenever possible. While it may seem like a tall order when you're cooking dinner and your toddler is being especially chatty, try not to walk away from her or turn your back on her while she's talking. As with so many other behaviors, the old saw "Do as I say, not as I do" has no value when teaching your children to listen.

My 14-month-old tries to feed herself, but she makes such a mess. What should I do?

2011-05-31T23:21:00.000+08:00

Aisya tries to feed herself, but she makes such a mess. How can I keep my house clean and encourage her independence?

David Gellerpediatrician

SAYS:-

You may have to throw in the proverbial towel on this one. Children are messy, especially when they're learning how to eat on their own, even in the neatest of homes.

Right now, your child sees eating as an experiment. The more you allow her to explore, the more fun she'll have as she learns how to use her mouth and hands to eat. She'll enjoy how food feels between her fingers, in her mouth, on her face, and all over her body. She's also brimming with curiosity over what happens when she flings food on the floor or feeds it to the family pet.

Try to go with the flow and have fun watching her gleefully learn what food is all about. It may help to have a plastic, washable mat underneath her highchair to protect your floor or carpet (an old shower curtain works just fine). Outfit her with a large bib, one with a little pocket at the bottom to catch falling food if possible.

And for safety reasons, use unbreakable dishes, cups, and glasses. If she starts throwing utensils across the room, discourage the behavior with a firm reprimand. Give her smaller portions so she won't have too much material to play with. Otherwise, be prepared for lots of baths, laundry, and laughs.

Raising Boys and Girls: Differences in Physical Development

2011-05-31T23:19:00.000+08:00

Gender identityChildren begin to identify themselves as a boy or a girl as early as 18 months. But it's between the ages of 2 and 6 that they begin to identify with others of their sex and demonstrate play and other behaviors that are characteristic of that sex. Most social scientists agree that an interplay of nature and nurture determines how these gender roles play out.

Physical growth
Between the big growth stages of infancy and adolescence, boys and girls grow in height and weight at about the same slow-but-steady rate. There aren't notable differences between the sexes until late elementary school, when girls start to grow taller faster, although boys catch up and exceed them within a few years.

Motor skills
Boys' gross motor skills (running, jumping, balancing) tend to develop slightly faster, while girls' fine motor skills (holding a pencil, writing) improve first. Often girls show an interest in art (painting, coloring, crafts) before boys for this reason.

Boys are also more physically aggressive and impulsive, as revealed by studies of their brains. The pleasure center of the brain actually lights up more for boys when they take risks. That's not to say that girls aren't active and risk-taking, only that on average boys are more so.

Verbal skills
More boys than girls are late talkers, and boys use more limited vocabularies. Girls are better at reading nonverbal signs, like tone of voice and expression, which also makes them better communicators early on, as they can connect feelings and words faster.

This is something you can focus on when reading books with boys: Point out characters' emotions, so boys start to notice how others are feeling.

Toilet training
Girls are potty-trained earlier than boys on average, though it's unclear whether this is due to physical differences or differences in socialization. (Mom usually does the training and may be easier for a girl to identify with.) Fewer girls wet the bed, too.

updated

2011-05-28T18:10:00.000+08:00

nota:
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tadi masa da type punyela panjang tibe2 blank..ces!!! sakit ati!!

huhu salam sumer!! lama da tak update belog kan....huhu okeh start!

pertama
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kami sekuarga baru balik dari sakit mata... virus di peroleh semasa weding along saya..angah saya yg bawak.. da berjangkit saya, aisya, hubby, along, aqel n MAK saya..ces!!! tapi dapat MC almost seminggu ok!! ni pon ada sepet2 anak cina sket lagi ni..tak recover abis lagi

kedua
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last sunday mak saya admitted kat CCU Putri.. dr cakap ada new blockage lagi kat salur darah mak...
Ya Allah, panjangkanla umur mak n sihatkanla dia..
sian kat mak...n last wed, mak da bole discharged...thanks Putri Specialist!

ketiga
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beginning of may aritu along saya selamat melangsungkan perkahwinan dgn jejaka idamannya.. hahaha.. hopefully her 2nd wedding will last till end.. amin

keempat
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aisya da pandai panggil "AYAH" dis morning... kembang bontot ayah dia sebab da lama tunggu...hahaha

gigi da almost penuh, okeh! da pandai gosok gg da...mandi sendiri pon da pandai.. then berat da almost 11 kg.. susu after setahun aritu susah betol nak cari yg sesuai..macam2 susu ktorg beli2..last2 Sustegen yg sesuai.. so, skg aisya minym susu 6 pack sebulan..mati tak? huhuhu makan pon kuat.. berak, lagi kuat..hahaha

kelima
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kerja saya alhamdulilah! ok.. no pressure..
kehidupan saya + hubby alhamdulilah juge
kehidupan saya sebagai pelajar, alhamdulilah juga.. saya da start mendaftar kat UTM..doakan saya abis k..hehehe

keenam
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bak saya after 3 month buat dialisis nampaknya alhamdulilah..da tak de jatuh2 lagi..n badan pon da gemuk da..amin!
Ya Allah panjangkanla umur Bak! amin

ketujuh
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baru lepas buat famili day dgn ofis..fun n buat kat Starhill

ke lapan
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rumah baru da start bayar installment dis month..kunci boleh dapat bulan 10...okla tu.. skrg tengah kumpul duit...rumahnya, saya bagi tengok show house aje k..mana ntah gambo rumah tu..lupe save kat mane..hehehe

okehla..itu je kot..next update will be on ... day..tada!!!!

Bufday Aisya on 09/03/2011

2011-04-19T17:03:00.000+08:00

Pictures tells everything =p

ayah dia yg lebih nganga..hehe

comel tak kek?

saja tengok senery lain

looks like no feeling at ol okeh!

walaupon gegar, api kat lilin tu taknak nyala..huhu

ayah turn

Merancang Keluarga

2011-04-19T16:48:00.000+08:00

helo!

harini cuti (MC) sebab demam + takde suara..hehe horay!! sementara aisya tdo, kite belog sekejap..

ok nak cite pasal merancang ni..saje2 nak cerita my experience..mane tau bole share dgn u'olls..

last 6 month saya dgn nekadnya ke klinik utk buat injection untuk family planning

dr: betul ke u nak inject?
me: betol DR.. makan pil takot lupe n takot gemuk
dr: sape kata inject tak gemok?
me: entah, teka2 je sebab tengok org makan pil banyak yg naik badan..
dr:erm..sbnarnya makan pil boleh naik badan, inject lagi badan naik, masukkan implan, lagi3 nak!
me: yeke? alamak.. takpe cube dulula..

lepas 2 bulan..ternyata badanku naik tanpa aku suruh...huhuhu (ponat den jaga badan lepas bersalin sampai umo aisya 8 bulan okeh!!..tension!)

after 3 months lepas inject... kene inject lagi sebab injection tahan 3 bulan jekan.., mak aii bertambah naik plak badan kami.. so, pas ni.. stopla kot..merancang sendirik jela..huhu

masa aisya 5 bulan..(kurus lagi okeh!!)

sebulan after inject (aisya 8 bulan)

bufday aisya (09/03/201)-masa ni da 6 bulan after inject! huhu

bezakan gambarku..huhuhu -sedeh!

terur tiruan bukan telur ayam okeh!

2011-04-09T15:02:00.000+08:00

salam..

kat opis borak2 dgn kwn kot2la telur tiruan tu adalah dari ayam yg kene injek ke ape ke..rupanya mmg bukan telur..huhuhu..

okeh, petikan dari "jualan terkini"

sedap tak? hehe sedap kan..tapi yg ni tiruan okeh

ni proses after siap buat kuning + putih

bahan2 dia (1-4)

okeh, nak tau lanjut sila ke belog jualan terkini!!

aisya @ 1 Year

2011-03-29T18:06:00.000+08:00

nak storey pasal aisya.. tapi gambo sume kat ayah dia..pada mama dia takleh transfer!! huhu

aisya da setahun, tapi last week baru pandai jalan..terkedek2..heheh comel! sempatla haku ambik video dia buat kenang2 ngan..

dia da pandai kata:

1. mama (ofkos!!!)
2. apah (bermaksud ayah)
3. atah (aisya - nama dia sndr)
4. amam @ nyum2 (makan!)
5. helo (bila nampak telefon)
6. ape ni (kalau kene geletek)

hehe.. lain2 kalau nampak susu, dia akan tunjuk.. selalu nak benda atau nampak sesuatu yg dia suke, dia tunjuk aje!! hehe.. seronok tengok dia!! nak berenggang mmg jauh sekali.. rasa sedih sangat!! kdg2 nak g skool dia da pandai da nangis kalau nak bg kat ibu dia.. kalau kat umah plak, aku da siap2 nak g, dia sembunyi blakang ayah dia..huhuhu kenela pujuk!

kalau mandi, takmo kluar!! huhu..

sebagai hadiah bday aisya yg pertama..mama hadiahkan pakej percutian ke "LOST WORLD OF TAMBUN" horey!!!

Officially stop!

2011-03-29T17:58:00.000+08:00

Hehe.. assalamualaikum?

lama kan tak jumpe.. sejak oct start keje kiter mmg tak sempat nak berbe-log (tulis2).. sempat baca2 je n usha2 baju bb kiter...!! aisya pon da setahun 09032011 haritu okeh!! huhuhu lupe nak wish kat cni!!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY ANAK MAMA!!!

just nak share.. yesterday n today, saya cuti!! horey!!! pertamanya sebab teman mak saya buat regular check-up kat KL..another thing, saya setelkan prob saya dgn UPM!!

ingat tak entry yg nie? --->

masa tu saya kecewa kan? okeh.. saya cube lagi bertahan sehinggala tak tahan.. so, i went to Dean offfice n complain about my master!! bayangkan.. i start master in 7 July 2009 till now 29 March 2011 (berapa bulan da tu??) nothing happened with my thesis..

bak kate mak saya: "dari blom tau ko mengandung, sampai perot besar, da beranak, abis pantang, aisya da merangkak, jalan, da setahun, sume.. master tak siap2?"

so, i decide to withraw from master programme kat UPM n transfer cdt ke U lain.. U mana? U Never Stadi

wpon sangat kecewa dan terkilan masa n duit, ape lagi tenaga sampai saya sanggup jauh dgn hubby masa stat pgnent aisya sampai aisya kluar..penat bejalar n perah otak.. tapi saya yg silap..

ramai org (kwn n lecturer) nasihatkan jgn ambik sup yg tak bole bantu kita..but, saya degil sebab kesiankan sup ni takde student..last2..padan muke den!

kesimpulannya, nak further master or PhD with Thesis, pilihla supervisor a.k.a. sup yg mmg boleh bantu kita.. bukan nak jahanamkan duit n masa kita sahaja!!

then, ape kejadahnya dia suh aku rest 1 sem n datang balik kat dia n cont master?? takde harapan da aku nak contd kat sana.. aku da kecewa n nak bwk diri..

Bye-Bye UPM!

kalau cinta

2011-03-15T22:39:00.000+08:00

Kalau cinta jangan kacau
Kalau sayang tak perlu marah
Kalau ikhlas tak minta berbalas
Serahkan cintamu
Pada yang punya cinta

best lagu ni..comel!! masa tengah wat keje, bila dengar lagi lambatla keje.. haha

nak upload gambo aisya jap lagi!! tggu..kueng3

Sedikit kecewa

2011-01-13T23:23:00.000+08:00

just nak share my feeling harini..

supervisor ask me to submit my working paper last 2 weeks. sebab alasannya da 1 month saya diam aje..

dia tau tak nak buat chapter 1- chapter 3 yg banyak benda edit every time buat meeting tu sangat ambil masa...??
then saya pon buat dgn bertungkus-lumus n submit.. waiting for 2 weeks times n saya dapat reply yg kecewa sangat...

kenapa ek? saya rasa saya ambik master sebab saya tak pandai..bukan sebab saya pandai..
kenapa ek? Supervisor saya expect saya ni budak genius yg tak boleh langsung buat mistake?
kenapa ek? keje dorg nak me"ngondem" aje..bukan ke supervisor utk guide student..kalau tak bole guide, sume student yg kene buat baik takpayah supervisor!!!

dahla sakit hati..bila nak jumpa meeting kene ikot schedule dia

dia: the whole dec I not free because cuti sekolah.nak spend masa dgn anak2 I.
me: the whole week I tak free since takde sapa nak jaga anak I
dia: u mana bole pentingkan diri u sendiri. mana bole nak ikut cakap u sahaja!!!

sapa yg selfish sekarang???

dia: u ubah ayat ni ikut macam i tulis!

next meeting...
dia: kenapa ayat u ni berterabur???

see..AGAIN!! sapa yg selfish.. no wonderla student dia sume bawak recorder bila meeting!

bukan saya nak cakap saya bagus..tapi since awal sampai sekarag saya mmg tak puas hati..(maybe dia pon sama..)

1st ly..my thesis bukan idea saya..semua idea saya tak bagus! dia je bagus..than bila kita da tak suke kan..i mean, u buat benda yg bukan idea u tapi u terpaksa suka sebab nak cari material utk writing..u ingat senang ke???

dia suke2 nak ubah itu ini tanpa mintak discuss dgn saya tapi bila saya ubah, mst kene bambuuuu..

sakit hati tak??

susahla mcm ni..kwn2 saya yg jd student dia sume give up separuh jalan...

tapi saya? entahla.. no support from dia langusng...bukan ke dia yg paling important dalam thesis saya..

~~u ni nak tolong I ke nak jahanamkan I???~~

terus takde mood yg sangat2 sebab teringatkan dia reply email dgn CAPITAL LETTER!!!

what does it mean? nak marah ke?

hello!! humanla beb..nak sume prefect u buat keje dgn angel la..

Owner-Agent-Buyer (Agency theory)

2011-01-11T15:12:00.000+08:00

okeh.. ni plak kisah saya nak beli umah sub-sale dekat johor...

nowdays sume housing area ialah gated n guarded so bila pusing2 nak cari umah kosong mmg susah sebab takle masuk ronda2.. so, ape kami buat stiap hari stat bukan 9 ktorg surf mudah.my n baca paper cari umah kosong n price affordable to us n tempat pon yg kami nak... so, dealla dgn agent..

agent
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ktorg tak tau pon agent ni sebenarnya memakan owner n buyer.. bila owner nak jual 200K dia cakap takkan ada org nak beli umah U.. but bila kta tanya agen "Itu rumah... berapa u nak jual?" "260K NOT negotiable!".. ha see, dia mark-up price gila2..
ada 1 lagi kisah masa tu saya kol agent..
saya: rumah yg corner tu u jual berapa?
agent: 300K
saya:bila i bole datang nak tengok rumah.i berminat!
agent: u da tengok dari internet kan? so, u just pay me 10% then I give u invoice then u bole start submit loan la!

ade ke macam tu?

agent2..patutla korg kaya kan...

owner
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owner: akak nak jual 190K .. umah akak cantik dik, akak ada maid so umah akak mmg bersih. tak macam umah sebelah! -~~sempat ngumpat umah sebelah akak ni~~
saya: kak bole kurang tak?
owner:dik, da murah da dik.. akak pon kalau jual just dapat balik duit renovate aje tau..
saya: tengok Sale n Purchase Agreement kak..
owner: akak lupe letak mana..adik nak submit loan, akak tolongla..

see.. sekali lagi aku terkena kat cni.. nak tengok S N P owner tak bagi..mst dia beli umah murah then kata uamh tu mahal...

ada plak case...

owner: akak nak juat 200K tapi agent cakap mahal sangat..then akak kol agent pura2 tanya pasal umah akak dia cakap dia juat 250K..akak geram sangat ni!!! kalau macam ni akak nak jual 400K la..biarla sapa nak beli tu padan muka!

ada gak case mcm ni okeh!!

Buyer
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1. kene ati2 n jgn percaya pada owner or agent 100%..u must be independent!!! -jgnla tjuk muke innoccent sangat bang oii!!
2. tengok sale n purchase agreement dulu..mana tau kot2 owner beli umah lelong ke ape ke..patu cakap dia beli mahalla apela..pigi dah!!
3. kalau bole jgn thru agent..sebab agent mst nak untung..n Owner pon nak untung., KITA? mstla nak untung jugak - so, make it simple.. owner happy, buyer happy.. kalau salah seorg tak happy..dont proceed!!
4. kalau bole try submit loan sendili w/pon agent cakap bank ni adalah panel valuer co I, so, kalau u anta kat bank ni mst value bole up to max..pk2kanla...

5.cari umah yg betol2 puaskan hati korg..jgn terburu2..n selagi tak sign ape2 agreement korg selamat!! so, hati2 okeh
6. choice is in your hand!!!
7. taddaaaa... =p

Betol ke Tidak

2011-01-11T14:45:00.000+08:00

Salam semua..thanx kepada yg sudi masuk belog sayep okeh!! tengkiu3 =p

arini Johor cuti sempena hari Hol Sultan Johor, so dapatla dok umah n bangun lambat tadik =p.. tapi Aisya plak asik meragam je sebab selsema.. ni baru je titun (Amin!) -dapat rest okeh..huhu hubby? biasela..g opis aje kejenya..

okeh, just nak share ngn korg pasal product kesihatan.. after bersalin ni saya mmg rasa bdn da lain..sakit pinggang, kulit tak berapa licin..(bukan kat perut ajer..kat muka, kat kaki, kat tangan.. sume3la..) so, startla searching product2 kesihatan kat tenet..kat tv mcm dalam iklan nutox la, atika beauty la..sumela..

tapi tertarik dgn 1 product from kinohimitsu ni (testi from my own sis okeh)

hubby: asal muka ... nampak cantek ek skrg?
sayep: tgkla adik dia!! hahaha

i pon tryla..ok..mmg berkesan..tapi $$ "mahel"..nak trus contd pon pk 3-4 kali.. so, saya stop n bercita-cita nak contd masa da kaya nnt =p

i pon try 2nd product'

baca testi dalam belog mmg teruja n i pon beli n cuba since harga pon tak mahal..
1st time i bukak kotak, takde pon ape2 manual utk saya baca.. so, i just can read ape2 writing kat atas kotak "kembalikan keremajaan wanita"..

ada org cakap baru mkn 5 kali dah nampak hasil, itu ketatla ini ketatla, tumit licinla, migrain ilangla.. b

but me??

no.. i tak rasa apa pon.. n tumit pon macam biasa je.. kenapa? adekah sebab saya beli tiruan punya? kompius!! ke org lain2..ke propaganda je ni sebenarnya? tak paham..

yg i nampak sejak i pakai i tumbuh kudis..sangat geli.. n sangat gatal ~~(ofkos)~~.. tension sangat. then hubby suh benti je..bila benti da tak tumbuh kudis baru..tapi yg lama still ada n gatal.. i da nak abis 3 kotak da..

so, kesimpulannya i tak taula product ni betol2 ke atau tak.. so, sape2 yg penah cuba, bole tak share..huhuhu

Aisya dis month @ 10 month

2011-01-01T11:44:00.000+08:00

okeh, truskan ber"chat" dgn aisya..but now saya nak cakap betol2..tak mau cakap "aca nak ucu?" but replace it wif "do u want milk?" ececece

Talking to your chatterbox

Your baby is just beginning tounderstand many simple words and phrases, so it's more important thanever to keep talking to him. Give your chatterbox a head start on goodspeech patterns by repeating his words back to him using adultlanguage. If he asks for a "bah-bah," for example, gently reinforce thecorrect pronunciation by asking, "Do you want a bottle?" At this stageof the game, it's best to try to avoid the tendency to use baby talk —it's fun, but hearing the right words is better for your baby'sdevelopment.

Though it may sometimes feel silly, havingconversations with your baby is a great way to encourage his languageskills. When he rattles off a sentence of gibberish, respond with "Oh,really? How interesting." He'll probably smile and keep chattering away.

Soonyou may notice some words or gestures you actually understand, as wellas other forms of communication, such as pointing and grunting. It'simportant to name the objects he points at — or point out objects ofyour own — to help him learn the names of things.

Give your babya play-by-play description of what you're doing — whether you're dicingonions for dinner or folding the laundry. As you put him in hisstroller, say, "There you go, into your blue stroller. Now, let'sbuckle you in and get you comfortable. Okay, we're off to the park."

Youcan also sing nursery rhymes, demonstrate actions that go with words(saying "bye-bye" and waving, for instance), and play games, such asring-around-the-rosy, so he learns to identify key words and phrases.

He'llsoon start to make the connections. Before long, he'll be clapping hishands together when you do and may begin to say "mama" when he'slooking at Mom and "dada" when Dad comes into the ro

Finger talents

Your baby's fingers are becoming more agile.By using her pincer grasp — which lets her pick up small objectsbetween her thumb and forefinger — she may be able to pick up a pieceof cereal or other small object without having to rest her wrist on asolid surface. (Now that your baby has graduated to solid food, expectplenty of cereal underfoot!)

She's intrigued by tiny things andis still likely to taste-test them. This is fine as long as they'reedible and not so small that she could choke on them.

Agood rule of thumb is to avoid letting your baby have anything thatwon't dissolve in water, like a raw carrot or a whole grape. Cookedveggie pieces, cheese, and peeled and cut-up fruit are great foods forlittle fingers.

More mobility

Bythis week, your baby will probably be able to crawl well on her handsand knees, with her trunk parallel to the floor. (Many babies try tocrawl before, but master the skill only now. Some babies bypasscrawling altogether and go from scooting to standing.) She may even beable to crawl up stairs.

At this age, your baby can sitconfidently and may even walk while holding onto furniture, possiblyletting go momentarily and standing without support. She'll take stepswhen held in a walking position and may attempt to scoop up a toy whileshe's standing, too.

Those magical first steps towardindependence — and lots more exercise for you! — are just around thecorner, if they haven't arrived already. Most babies take their first steps sometime between 9 and 12 months and are walking well by the time they're 14 or 15 months old.
om (though at thispoint he's still more likely to use the two words indiscriminately).

Growing physical independence

Only a few weeks shy of hisfirst birthday, your baby's no longer a helpless infant who can't doanything without you. He still needs plenty of care and support, buthis growing independence — evident in his solo standing, stooping, andsquatting — is becoming apparent.

Your baby may walk whilegripping your hand, and he'll hold out his arm or leg to help you dresshim. At mealtimes, he may be able to grip a cup and drink from itindependently (though some children may not do this for a few moremonths) and hand-feed himself an entire meal.

Once your baby'sable to drink from a cup by himself, you may need to start ducking,because he's just as likely to toss it when he's finished as to put itdown gently.

Your baby will also purposely drop objects forsomeone, probably you, to pick up. If you get tired of this droppinggame, take away the object for a few minutes and try to distract yourbaby with something just as enticing, such as a fun game of peek-a-boo.

Becoming her own person

Your baby may now assert herselfamong her siblings and begin to engage in parallel play — contentedlyplaying alongside (but not with) another baby. Informal baby playdatescan be a great way to encourage your little one to develop socialskills. Just remember that babies this age are still too young tounderstand the idea of making friends.

Think of these playdates as helping your baby build a foundation for learning how to interact with others.And she may get new play ideas from these first buddies. A bonus:You'll have some help and support from the other babies' parents.

Time to start setting limits

Yourbaby now understands simple instructions, though she may purposelychoose to ignore you when you say "no." (To help the word carry alittle more weight, use it sparingly, for setting important limits.)

Eventhough your baby may not always remember tomorrow what you've saidtoday, it's not too soon to set certain boundaries and start teachingher some important distinctions, like right from wrong and safe fromunsafe.

Use your best judgment as a guideline. You're not beingmean if you don't let her devour a second cupcake, for example — you'resetting a healthy limit. If she pulls the cat's tail, move her hand,look her in the eye, and say, "No, that hurts the cat." Then guide yourbaby's hand to pet the animal gently.

Her desire to explore isstronger than her desire to listen to your warnings, so it's up to youto protect and teach her. What seems to be defiance is just her naturalcuriosity to see how the world works.

Aisya last month @ 9 month

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Almost walking

aisya mmg da pandai memapah n da pandai manjat meja Pc ayah dia..huhuhu

Your baby's getting closer and closer tofull-fledged walking. She can probably crawl up stairs and cruise,moving around upright while holding onto furniture. A baby this age mayeven take a couple of steps. (A few actually do walk now — and somedon't walk until well into their second year. There's a wide range ofages at which children meet this milestone.)

Your baby's alsolearning how to bend her knees and how to sit after standing, which isharder to master than you might think! She might get "stuck" standingup in her crib. If this happens, gently show her how she can get backdown.

There are ways to help your baby with her walking efforts.Stand or kneel in front of her, and help her walk toward you by holdingboth of her hands. Eventually just hold your hands out to her inencouragement. Some babies enjoy pushing a toddle truck, which providesboth support and mobility. Look for one with a wide, stable base.

Babyproofing your homeis a necessity now. One good place to start is to put latches on thedoors of off-limits cabinets — babies inevitably make a beeline forsuch things. (You could also move all cleaning supplies or potentialpoison hazards to higher cabinets.) Also, your baby's crib mattressshould be at the lowest mattress setting.

Shoes? Not yet

Once your baby starts standing and cruising, you may wonder if shoesare necessary. Until your baby is walking around outdoors regularly,most pediatricians and developmental experts don't think so. It'snormal for your baby to walk a little bowlegged or with her feet turnedout, and her feet may look flat. Going barefoot can help strengthenyour baby's arches and leg muscles, and feeling the textures of whatshe's walking on can help her balance.

Coping with separation

betol r.. aisya takot kalau jumpa org yg dia jarang jumpa..kalau straight away tinggalkan dia, mst dia nangis

Now, and for the next few months, separation anxietyis at its peak. Although it's normal now for a baby to show an extremeattachment to you and fear of everyone else, it can be difficult fordoting grandparents and caregivers. You can help ease transitions foryour baby by warning people to approach slowly and let your baby makethe first move.

If your baby uses a thumb or pacifier to soothehimself as he tries to cope with his anxiety, that's okay. Sucking isone of your baby's only methods of calming himself.

Travel tips

Becauseof separation anxiety, this can be a tough time to be away from yourbaby for any length of time. But it may also be hard to travel withyour baby right now. He's become used to his surroundings and familiarfaces, and he likes predictability. So being on the road can disrupthis sense of security and routine, especially when visiting anunfamiliar place or meeting lots of strangers.

At this age, hedoesn't grasp the concept of travel but he'll realize he's in a new,strange place. Be ready for some cranky, clingy behavior and prepareplenty of distractions — picture books, noise-making toys, nestingblocks, hand puppets, and definitely his security object, if he hasone. Schedule plenty of downtime away from all the strangers to let himdecompress.

If he still uses a pacifier, it's wise to bring along a handful. They seem to vanish just when you need them most.

Memories

correct!! bila lipat baju, dia akn tolong serakkan semula..tension mak!! hahaha..n dia kalau sampai je umah mst g tempat dia biasa main n main2 kejap.. (bawah meja)

By this week, your baby will start to remember morespecific information, such as where her toys are in your house. She'llalso be able to imitate actions she's seen as long as a week before.

Theseskills indicate that she has recall memory — the ability to remembersome details of a specific experience for a short time — though shestill doesn't remember most of her experiences. Long-lasting consciousmemory of specific events won't develop until your baby's second orthird year, when real language emerges.

Playing and learning

Yourbaby can now put objects in a container and remove them. Give her aplastic bucket and some colorful blocks so she can practice this newskill. (Make sure they're not so small that she can swallow them.) Shealso likes toys with moving parts, such as knobs, levers, or doors thatopen and close. Big plastic cars that your baby can wheel around on thefloor are fun playthings, too.

If you take a toy away from her,your increasingly assertive baby is likely to object. She's reallystarting to be able to make her needs and wants known. Some soundadvice: Give her something new before you take the other object away.

Abouthalf of babies this age will initiate passing games — giving awayobjects and then taking them back. Be her playmate. Try rolling a ballto your baby and see whether she rolls it back to you. Give her asorting toy or stacking rings and see if she sorts or stacks or handsthe pieces to you. She'll also like to share her food, so accept these"gifts" graciously.

Language comprehension

aisya da paham kalau i cakap NO! dia akan buat juga tapi muka takot2.. n sengeh

The torrent of words your baby hasbeen hearing since birth is beginning to work its magic, although hisunderstanding of words far outpaces his ability to use them. Hisbabbling has turned to jabber and is probably starting to sound morelike real words, phrases, and sentences. Your baby thinks he's saying something, so respond as if he really is!

Yourbaby still comprehends more from your tone than from your actual words,though. He can understand when he's pleased you, so offer specificpraise, such as "You did a great job picking up the rattle." The moreyou talk to your baby — while preparing dinner, driving, or gettingdressed — the more he learns about communication.

Just say no

Yourbaby's starting to understand the word "no," though he may not obey itjust yet. For example, you can expect him to try to touch somethingeven after you've said not to. It's best to use the word "no"sparingly, and when you do use it, follow it by removing him from thescene of the crime and introducing him to a new activity.

Blooming personality

Your baby's personality is reallyemerging now. She may be very social, granting broad smiles to everyoneshe meets, or a little more shy, hiding her face when well-meaningstrangers try to engage her. Your baby may charge ahead boldly orassess the situation carefully before accepting others. She might beeven tempered or switch her moods quite dramatically.

She'llgesture for your attention and may even wave goodbye when she sees youhead for the door. She's also developing a mind of her own, which youmay run up against when you try to put her in her car seat or stroller.

Cuti mau ke mana?

2011-01-01T11:04:00.000+08:00

Okeh..

last yr.. hehe (~~mcm da lama jer kan?~~).. okla okla.. 2010 hubby mmg tak plan cuti sebab dia perasan dia still bujang lagi.. so, dia mmg suke cuti sebab lambat bangun tdo!! huhu.. dis year, memandangkan saya keje, dia pon keje, so kami perlu plan cuti. lagipon bila ada anak ni sangatla kene ati2.. cuti simpan utk emergency anak deman ke, baby sitter tetibe tak dapat jaga anak ke..

dis year kami bercadang utk g bercuti bila aisya da pandai jalan katanya.. (org kata senang bila anak pandai jalan, tapi payah plak nak kejar)..cmane tu...

nak g mana ek? either cameron atau penang..penang ramai geng nak visit..kelantan ok gak..org cakap sangat best!.. kedah pon best..huhuhu.. ke jepun..hahaha (~~itu kalau saya kaya!~~)

yg pastinya, dis week balik pontian!! yea dapat jumpa mak!! rindu kat mak okeh! last week g segamat, jumpa mama balik haji..da kurusla mama saya tu..sian dia.. huhu

ni hubby asik keje je..kanmain lagik dia..keje ngalahkan boss..tgu dia baik baru bole chow..

aisya? bagi dia tdo dulu..t otw takdela mengamok tak hengat..hehehe

harap2..jadila saya nak g ber"holiday" huhu.. from after honeymoon --- sekarang tak penah g holoday..kesian ek?yerla.. bz stadi patu beranak, patu keje plk..weee..

okeh kesilapan yg akan saya lakukan di awal2 thn baru ni selalunya bila tulis @ type tahun mst silap... terawang2 lagi di tahun 2010 =))

Beban Gurantor

2011-01-01T06:30:00.000+08:00

Okeh, saja nak share experience..

ramai yg tanya pasal beban jadi guarantor yg da di ~~"Black List"~~.. kadang2 ada yg nangis cerita n mintak tolong saya setelkan mslah..

okeh, saya da tanya bank cmana kalau jadi gurantor "black List" nie.. yg peminjam tu sah2la tak bayar n black list kan..ni gurantor plak kene.. kesian..kebanyakan kes berlaku dalam 10-8 tahun lalu..

1st ape bole buat, minta bank cari kat mana si peminjam tu hutang.. (in case kita takde bukti masa sign tu.-ala2 sign buta).

then after dah tau, pastikan:-

1. pnjaman peribadi/housing loan etc. or

2. study loan

jika study loan, anda mmg bernasib baik!! sebabnya study loan takkan black list gurantor..if black list, u boleh buat surat atau pergi ke office institusi pengajian tersebut buat rayuan.

kalau no 1 (personal loan/ housing/ hire-purchase loan) sure siksa TAPI!!

anda tetap boleh buat surat ke bank2 tersebut n bgtaula mslah anda n start buat payment . kalau tak mampu Rm100 sebulan pon ok ape.. asalkan bayar.. n bila payment prompt tak tunggu sampai abis.., nama u bole di tarik balik sebagai "black listed gurantor". n hidup akan kembali bersinar..

so, as my advice..nak jadi gurantor biarla bersebab n org tu u betol2 kenal.. jgn kwn baik ke , kesian ke, GF/BF ke..susahla kita nanti.. n kepada peminjam, kalau bole carila pinjaman yg tak perlu gurantor.. insyallah kita takkan susahkan sesiapa..

okey!!! tadaa

Happy new year!!

2011-01-01T06:18:00.000+08:00

2010

===

1. Celebrate 1st aniversary on 21/02/2010

2. Having a baby "Nur Aisya Nabila" on 09/03/2010

3. Mom sick - kerap in -out frm hosp n lastly managed to recover. now kesihatan mak more better (after ESMR programme)

4. Start working on 04/10/2010

5. Sending aisya to babysitter 04/10/2010

6. mom in law pergi haji

7. aisya da pandai duduk + tumbuh gigi + panggil mama =)

2011

===

expected:-

1. aisya da pandai jalan on her 1st birthday @ 09/03/2010

2. we move to new house

3. finished my master..-tak larat da berkejar3

4. mak + bak sihat n di panjangkan umur

5. get increment..hahaha

6. optional - will find new job once dapat master!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR ALL FRENS @ 2011

jumpe lagi!

2010-12-29T23:08:00.000+08:00

huhu sangat bz okeh..

balik umah kul830 patu main2 dgn aisya patu bersilat masak + kemas baju aisya + ayah aisya + emak aisya utk esok then trus zzZZzzZZz

wekend ada je hal..kadang2 tu tdo sampai t/hari, pegi bwk aisya g taman, g Kl, g pontian, g segamat.. huhhuhu

hah..nak sangat keje kan? tapi keje best! walaupon keje bank tetapi daku tidak stress!! siyes!! kdg2 org yg buat kita stress bukan keje tu..keje heppi jer

tapi!! jgn worry sebab alhamdulilah, master sayep trus berjalan dgn lancar!! doakan saya dapat abis bulan 6 ni okeh!! huhuhuhu nak keje jadi lecturer!! nak gaji besar! pls! huhuhu

gambo banyak sangat ambik tapi takleh nak upload (MALAS)

NOTE:
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sape2 yg stay Johor n carik PB, sila call or msg saya okeh!! TQ TQ TQ =)

hujan pula

2010-12-07T15:06:00.002+08:00

baru nk kuar jalan2 da hujan.. hubby tu pon 1..tdo dari tadi tak bgun2 ~~(aisya pon same 2 x 5)~~ ... mama jln sorg baru tau.. hahaha

Salam Maal Hijrah

2010-12-06T18:40:00.003+08:00

Hikmah membaca doa akhir tahun Hijrah adalah kita memperingati amalan-amalan pada tahun lalu, sama ada yang amalan yang membawa kebaikan mahupun amalan yang membawa kepada dosa dan lalu meminta ampun atas kesalahan-kesalahan serta meminta perlindungan Allah swt. daripada kejahatan syaitan dan manusia.

Manakala hikmah membaca doa awal tahun Hijrah pula adalah kita memperbaharui azam untuk melakukan kebaikan dan meminta kekuatan dan hidayah untuk melaksanakannya.

mau cerita apa..

2010-11-26T23:14:00.000+08:00

esok pagi2 nak pegi pasar beli stok lauk utk nx week..huhu..senarai
1. Ikan
2. Sotong
3. Ayam
4.Daging
5. Sayur

ok.. siap list pasar..
then esok da janji nak masak sedap utk en suami..sedap2 pon ikan goreng pon sedap..haha

next
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nak kemas umah, cuci kain, lipat kain, irom baju keje nx week

next
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g makan Domino's Pizza..
(tu en hubby da janji eh?..jgn buat2 luper ye..pls!!)

lastly.. nak layan budak ni tengok POCOYOOO!! hahaha

lepas geram

2010-11-24T23:02:00.000+08:00

ok.. teruskan sahaja yer..

kat opis saya ada segerombolan "ppl" yg saya kureng suka! area department saya bercampor dgn si"kepoh"2 ni..n 1st day saya masuk keje, mulut murai dorg ~~mcm "bertih jagung bpk saya"~~ telah buat saya pk "bole ke aku keje dalam suasana tak aman mcm ni??" sangat bisisng okeh! department sebelah sana, waktu lunch je dengar suara..tu pon kdg2 dgr bunyi kasut aje... tapi area yg saya duduk ni mmg malang..

one guy kat department saya selalu bgtau saya yg telinga dia suda menanah!!! -so, paham2 sendirikla tuan punya bdn...

oleh kerana itu, i dun like them very much, neway dorg pon sombong dgn aku pon.. jeles kot aku mude lagi..ahahaha..

tadi, tadi!!! kan? dorg memekak sebab salah seorg celebrate bday.. finela..tak panggil aku yg mmg nampak sangat dorg tak suka aku sebab aku terselit kat situ...aku ok lagi. sekali one of them boleh cakap ape tau??

"jihan, tlg tengokkan attendance berapa org datang arini??"

bole tak? bukan nak pelawa makan kek, tapi suh aku jadi kuli plak? aku ACCOUNT OFFICER OKEH!!

n kemuncaknya..
masa aku balik 5.45p.m.. sekor dari dorg perasan n dia cakap "ha, balik..balik..balik.." n mak "kepoh" dengar, dia pon ape lagi, tukang tambah laukla..makin kuat jerit, BALIKKKKKKKKKK... BALIKKKKKKKKK.. kurang hajar kan? so what? mak bapak ko ke yg bayar gaji aku??

(aku malu sangat masa tu sebab sume pandang aku)- tapi aku buat bodo since aku balik after ofis hour!

tension dok area org yg stupid mcm ni tau.. dahla mak "kepoh" ni sangat belagak.. tak abis2 cakap barang2 dia sume beli kat o/sea..pirrahhhh!! oi kak, mak ayah saya stiap bulan g o/sea okeh!! tak jeles langsung..patutla ko tak kawin..mayb sebab ko belagak sangat.. n yg kelakarnya..si balachi2.. tu ikot je dia..

kerja ok, tp disebabkan environment yg memuakkan, aku mcm nak berenti... do umah tengok muka aisya lagi bagus!

Introducing them

2010-11-20T04:51:00.000+08:00

okeh.. mereka ni lahir pada tarikh yang sama which is 10.11.2010. n sharing wif my father in law birthday (besday haku 11.10) senang ingat..

okeh!! no 1 is.... (nama dua2 pon tak tau lagi)

my brother's son (2nd baby laki2 jgk okeh) alhamdulilah!!!

2nd!!

my bestfren son (fairuz) eh laki lagik!? ha,...yang ni bole jadi menantu makcik okeh! hahah

okeh,lastly.. ni special sket sebab twin =)

adiba husna n aisya hana =)

my cousin baby

comel oke!!

Aisya @ 8 month

2010-11-20T04:26:00.000+08:00

hehe.. suda nak masuk 9 bulan pon..
okeh..last month @ 7 month dia da:-
1. tumbuh lagi 2 gigi = 6 batang ~~(sakit ler dia gigit)~~ .
2. pandai merangkak dgn pantas
3. memapah2
4. meyelerakkan rumah ~~(tension mama)~~
5. kuat makan
6. susu from 6 oz -> 4-5 oz

dis month @ 8 month
1. da pandai duduk! comel sangat dia duduk!!

The best and worst things about being a mom today

2010-11-20T04:19:00.000+08:00

Good, bad, or just different?

Your grandma had no cell phone, your mother no online shopping, but despite these modern conveniences — and all the medical, technological, and cultural advances over the past two generations — about half of you think being a mom is more difficult today than it was back then. Do you agree?

53% think your mom had it easier

When comparing motherhood now to when our moms raised young kids, 53 percent of you said the previous generation had it easier. And 47 percent also said Grandma had an easier time being a mom — despite doing it without cable TV, microwave ovens, and readily available epidurals.

For many moms we asked, the ease of modern-day life doesn't compensate for the lack of friendliness and safety we feel. Some pined for the "good old days," a golden time when children played safely together on the block while moms chatted over coffee.

Whether those times of close-knit communities are real or imagined, we've definitely got Leave It to Beaver on our minds. "People stayed home more, so it was easier to make friends with other moms and children," said one mom. "Neighborhoods were more like one big, happy family."

"Moms today have too many choices"

But there's more to our affection for the past than simple nostalgia. Many moms said they long for a simpler era, one that came with clearer rules and expectations and shared values. As one mom put it, "Moms today have it harder than our moms or grandmothers because we have too many choices and worry too much about what others think about our style of parenting."

Of course, whether it was easier or harder for our moms and grandmothers may be begging the question. Motherhood is always throwing up strange days and tough questions, as well as many unique joys. One of the moms surveyed may have said it best: "The problems were very different for all three generations — but equally scary."

What we wish for most

Self-help gurus tell us to find "balance." Advertisements for spas and chocolate bars urge us to take a moment for ourselves. Unfortunately, this doesn't feel possible for many of the moms we asked.

42% of moms want more time

So it's not surprising that when asked to choose one thing you wish you could have more of, you picked time (42 percent). Next came money (38 percent). More friends, love, good looks, and nice things barely captured your votes. What would you choose?

Not having enough time to balance the demands of your job and those of your family is your biggest challenge as a mom (16 percent), followed by trying to get enough time to yourself (14 percent).

"Moms are still expected to do the equivalent of a full-time job at home, plus meet the demands of their jobs outside the home," one mom said. "There are just never enough hours in the day to get it all done, let alone have any time to myself."

"I'm too stressed and tired to take care of my kids"

Lack of time is also to blame for some of your worst feelings of "mommy guilt." After letting your kids watch too much TV, you said your biggest guilt triggers are not spending enough time with your kids (35 percent), not setting a good enough example with your behavior (33 percent), and working outside the home (27 percent). What makes you feel mommy guilt?

Many moms said that although some modern workplaces are more flexible these days — offering jobs that are part-time, at home, shared, and so on — most don't respect the realities of your priorities as a mom.

"I fear that I'll have to work even more and have less time with my kids," said one mom. "Where does the enjoyment come in? We're practically strangers. This isn't what I signed up for!"

"I worry that I'm not a good mom," said another. "I'm too stressed and too tired to take care of my kids."

Who's today's ideal mom?

When asked for your mom role model, your answer was clear: It isn't Angelina Jolie (8 percent), Katie Couric (3 percent), Laura Bush (2 percent), Hillary Clinton (3 percent), Michelle Obama (3 percent), Reese Witherspoon (13 percent), Jennifer Garner (12 percent), or any of today's other famous mothers.

The majority of you (23 percent) picked "none of the above" when given a long list of celebrities — including actresses, politicians and politicians' wives, and media personalities — to choose as today's motherhood ideal.

"None of these represent the 21st-century mom very well," said one mom.

18% are sick of celebrity moms

Many moms expressed conflicting feelings about celebrities and their babies. Most of you are intrigued (59 percent), but very few (8 percent) will admit to full-blown obsession. Significant numbers of you try to ignore celebrity mom news (15 percent) or are completely sick and tired of it (18 percent). What about you?

To see who you really idolize, it helps to look back a generation or two.

"I admire my grandmother," said one mom. "Seven kids, cloth diapers, boiling water to heat it. I don't think I could do it. She gave me the best advice I've ever received: 'Love them, be strict and honest with them, live a good life full of love and happiness and they will seek out the same.'"

Motherhood: Still worth it

Our yearning for the past, complaints about the present, and admiration for how our moms and grandmas lived begs the questions: Are we that old-fashioned? Is being a mom today really that bad?

No, you answer. Modern motherhood is hard — but you love it anyway.

82% are happier as moms

The vast majority of you (82 percent) say you're happier now that you're a mom. You laugh more (74 percent) and find that motherhood is more enjoyable than you imagined it would be (77 percent). Do you agree?

The best parts of being a mom, some of you said, are the aspects that don't change from generation to generation, like the love that flows between you and your children, the kinship you feel with other mothers, and the wonder of watching your kids grow.

You appreciate the elements of modern motherhood that enhance the essential joy of being a mom and dislike the ones that steal from it. And in the end, despite all the challenges of being a mom now — and the difficulties moms have always faced — you know the payoff is worth it.

"It is and will be the best thing I've ever done"

"As a mother, you feel so many emotions — happy, sad, scared, and uncertain," said one mom. "But after you get the first month or so under your belt, it has to be the best feeling in the world!

"Words can't describe how much being a mom changes your life," she continued. "But there's nothing that can give you so much happiness. It is and will be the best thing I've ever done."

Things change when you have a baby

2010-11-20T04:17:00.000+08:00

What changes when you have a baby? A better question may be: What doesn't change?
1. You finally stop to smell the roses, because your baby is in your arms.

2. Where you once believed you were fearless, you now find yourself afraid. [See a reader's perspective in #22, below.]

3. The sacrifices you thought you made to have a child no longer seem like sacrifices.

4. You respect your body ... finally.

5. You respect your parents and love them in a new way.

6. You find that your baby's pain feels much worse than your own.

7. You believe once again in the things you believed in as a child.

8. You lose touch with the people in your life whom you should have banished years ago.

9. Your heart breaks much more easily.

10. You think of someone else 234,836,178,976 times a day.

11. Every day is a surprise.

12. Bodily functions are no longer repulsive. In fact, they please you. (Hooray for poop!)

13. You look at your baby in the mirror instead of yourself.

14. You become a morning person.

15. Your love becomes limitless, a superhuman power.

Petua menghilangkan bau "ketiak"

2010-11-15T11:34:00.000+08:00

okeh.. nak share petua yang my sis jumpa n dia try + tambah sendiri (taktaula either dia jumpa or dia cipta sendirik)

okeh.. 1 day nak dijadikan cerita, dalam freezer sista saya terlalu banyak sangat limau nipis.. dia naik muak sampai. in disebabkan oleh bak, suke beli barang kalau nak masak.. dia tak suke nak check ape yg ada, ape yang kene beli.. dia just beli aje..~~(alasan:malasla nak carik ape yang ada, ape yg takda dalam esbok engkau!)~~

ok, sista saya mmg seorg yang tak ske membazir..so, ape dia buat?

1. dia makan limau nipis tu stiap kali singgah ke dapur (makan dgn kulit2 sekali)

2. dia buat limau suam (limau suam dgn harapan badan cepat kurus)

then..tadaa!! dia punya bau badan yg tak sedap terutama kat K*****K tu suda tidak ada.. so, dia dgn heppinye ke ofis tanpa memakai deodorant (itula yg dia idamkan dari dulu lagi)

yerla deodorant pon di samping merosakkan baju, ia juga tak elok kan)

then guess what!?

sista: an, ko tau tak aku da tak pakai dedorant lagi sekarag
sayep: ye ke? ala..cmane ko buat?

then.. saya pon ikot juga petua itu..guess what sekali lagi?? tadaaa.. saya pon da stat tak pakai doedorant. hubby saya taknak cuba sebab dia kata lain org, lain caranya..lantakla.. biarkan bau busuk takda sape yg nak dekat.. (buek!)

preloved baby matress

2010-11-13T12:09:00.001+08:00

I buy at online preloved shopping --> Juaimurah

Buying Price RM89 (not inc postage fee)

Now!!!

Selling Price only

RM70

very good condition

I just wear for 1 MONTH

Suitable for those who already hv a baby bed.

give me an SMS at

019-3366317

my life wit baby

2010-11-13T11:02:00.000+08:00

Couple time

Many new parents report that after the novelty of life with a baby wears off, they find they've drifted away from their partner and lost the closeness they once felt. Having a baby is a seismic event in a couple's life together. Because the brunt of the day-to-day adjustment often falls more on one partner, it's all too easy to start feeling estranged.

Acknowledging these feelings — first to yourself and then to your partner — is the first step toward doing something about it. Let your partner know that you miss him or her. If you're feeling this way, odds are good that your mate is, too, and will be relieved that you're bringing it up.

Make a specific plan to spend more time together. Figure out what you miss most about being together and make reclaiming those experiences a priority. Schedule time to spend together, whether it's a weekly date night or another special ritual. Come up with a special code phrase that either of you can use when the talk is revolving too much around the baby or what you have to get done at home.

Re-evaluate ways to divvy up infant care and housework. Not only will this reduce your workload, it will create more time for you and your partner to spend together doing something fun. You'll also see yourselves working as a team.

Coping with separation anxiety

It's natural for your baby to start showing signs of separation anxiety when you leave her in the care of others. In fact, it's a sign of normal, healthy development. Not that knowing this makes it any easier on you to see your baby in distress.

To help the two of you weather the goodbye blues:
• Say goodbye in an affectionate but matter-of-fact way. Try not to draw out farewells or let yourself get emotional in response to your baby's crying.
• Stay away once you say goodbye. Resist the temptation to turn back and check to see that she's okay, which will only make things more difficult for you both.
• Call when you get where you're going. For peace of mind, phone to ask the caregiver how your baby's doing. Odds are she stopped crying almost right after you left and got diverted by an activity.
• Reconnect by spending some special time with your baby after you get home.
• Some babies react differently when different parents leave. If your baby is most upset when you're the one heading out, consider having your partner do the leave-taking when possible.

8-month-old: Week 2

2010-11-13T11:00:00.000+08:00

Exploring objects

Your baby's now exploring objects by shaking them, banging them, dropping them, and throwing them before falling back on the tried-and-true method of gumming them. The idea that you do something to an object is beginning to emerge (using a comb to tidy her hair), so an activity center with lots of things your baby can bang, poke, twist, squeeze, shake, drop, and open will fascinate her.

Your baby will also be fascinated with toys that have specific functions, such as phones. If she can't hold it up to her ear herself, do it for her and pretend to have a conversation. Over the next few months, she'll start to use objects for their intended purposes — brushing her hair, drinking from a cup, and babbling on her play phone.

Watch for her to start pointing or looking at the correct picture when you name an object — especially if it's something familiar (such as eyes, nose, or mouth) or beloved (like a dog or a rubber ducky).

Also, at this stage, your baby likes to see things fall down, get picked up (by you, of course), and then get thrown down again. She's not trying to drive you mad. She just finds the spectacle interesting and naturally wants to see it again and again.

8-month-old's development: Week 1

2010-11-13T10:59:00.000+08:00

dis was a lat week development n alhamdulilah, semuanya aisya done! =)

Crawling

Your baby may be creeping (pushing himself around on his belly), crawling, or moving about by bottom shuffling — scooting around on his posterior using a hand behind him and a foot in front of him to propel himself.

Creeping is your baby's first method of getting around efficiently on his own. Usually, he'll first learn to pull himself with his hands and then get up on his hands and knees. Then he'll figure out how to move forward and backward by pushing off with his knees. (A "combat crawl" is a variation in which one leg is the pusher and the opposite arm the lead puller.)

All of these variations on crawling strengthen the muscles that will soon enable him to walk. Whichever mode of mobility your baby's using, it's fascinating to see how he solves the problem of getting around.

Stand and deliver

Your baby may be able to pull himself up to a standing position while holding on to furniture. In fact, if you stand your baby next to the sofa, he may be able to hold himself up, although he may be hanging on for dear life.

At this stage some parents put their children in baby walkers, but that's not a good idea. Walkers are unsafe: Your baby can use a walker as a stepladder to reach things he couldn't normally get to, such as a hot stove or bottle of bleach. What's more, they discourage floor play, which helps him learn to walk by giving him opportunities to crawl, pull up, and cruise while holding on to furniture — all activities that lead to walking.

Safety first

Your baby's newfound mobility means that he's now entering the land of bumps and falls. These are an inevitable part of childhood, and although your heart may occasionally skip a beat or two, try to enjoy watching your baby explore his surroundings and discover his limits.

Restraining your innate desire to protect your baby allows him to grow and learn for himself. However, do make every effort to make your home baby-safe. A good way to do this is to get down to his level to find the possible danger zones. Secure fragile objects so they won't topple, for example, and keep rickety furniture in rooms that don't get much baby traffic.

Now's a good time to move drapery and blind cords out of reach, pad sharp coffee-table corners, install toilet-seat locks, relocate hazardous houseplants to higher ground, lock away poisonous cleaning supplies and medications, cover electric outlets, and secure safety gates at the top and bottom of each staircase.

Income management

2010-11-07T04:51:00.001+08:00

Selamat pagi semua.. Hari ni nak story pasal income management okeh.. Da lama tak tulis entry tetibe masuk bab duit..

"Knapa?"

"sebab saya perlu manage duit gaji bila da stat keje ni."

tu le jwpnnya..

Ok start!!
Bila kita dpt gaji kita perlu give a portion untuk every single cent that we have. Lets say kita dpt gaji kuarkn 100 percent n byr bil semua n lebih buat belanja.. So kat c2 kita da salah manage duit.. So i nak share a tips to manage our $$ by a portion.

Duit gaji bersih =
1. saving 15%,
2. budgeted expenses ( bills, car loan, cdt card, transport, milage, food) = 72%,
3. reward (parent, sedekah, gift, vacation)= 5%,
4. misc./others ( kete rosak)= 3%,
5. insurance=5%

so, total will be 100%.

so tang budget expenses tu kalo 72% cume rm1000 means that kita bole guna portion itu sahaja. Sb tu kt cni sy tekankan bhwa jgn usik portion lain utk belanja. Just ambik 72% from gaji kita. Kalau tak, kita failed tuk manage our income..

Ok la sampai kat cni dlu.. Mau tdo =p

Tag dari Lina Rahim =p

2010-10-31T10:52:00.000+08:00

Tagged by ~~Lina~~

1. Apa benda penting dalam hidup korang?
a) Famili

2. Benda terakhir yang korang beli guna duit korang?
Susu Aisya

3. Di manakah tempat korang akan melangsungkan tempat perkahwinan korang dan apakah temanya nanti?
Done! di rumah sahaja.. huhu kureng budget ler nak buat kat hotel ***** =p
temanya ialah:-
1. Ocean blue
2. Meroon

4. Adakah korang sedang bercinta sekarang?
Biase2 aje

5. Berapa lama korang akan mencintai kekasih korang?
till the end of time.Insyallah

6. Di manakah korang selalu jumpa kekasih korang?
kat rumah..haha

7. Novel/buku/majalah terkahir yang dibeli?
"Parent smart, kids richer"

8. Apakah nama penuh korang?
Norjihan Muzlan

9. Antara mak dan ayah, mana korang lebih mesra?
Both of them

10.Namakan orang yang betul-betul korang nak jumpa dalam hidup korang
Artis popular..slalu terserempak ngn yang tak fofuler jer..

11.Adakah korang basuh baju korang sendiri?
abes, sape lagi?

12.Di manakah tempat yang betul-betul korang nak pergi?
saya nak pergi air terjun!!! mengidam sejak zaman bercinta..~~sakit hati sebab hubby ske berjalan tapi bukan dgn wife!~~ (see, sakit hati tak)

13.Pilih salah satu, peluk atau cium?
both ~~(1 words can?)~~

14.Beritahu 3 benda tentang orang yang tag.
Tentang Lina
a) sangat baik n berbudi bahasa =)
b) dia suke type eng dalam belog dia
c) dia pernah beli printer frm me..hahaha

15.5 benda yang disayangi dalam hidup
1. my famili (mak, bak, along, angah,sapek)
2. my own small famili (hubby, aisya)
3. my belonging (paling tak suke org lain suke -suki sedekah harta aku kat org lain
4. my pictures
5. my hometown (pontian) - home sweet home

16.Lagu yang paling suka dan selalu dengar
lagu rock kapak

17.Bila tarikh lahir dan kat mana korang sambut tahun lepas?
note:eehh bestnye lina punya besday!! 1 dunia celebratekan okeh! hehehe

saya, 11/10/19** last yer di rumah kakak sebab masa tu tengah blaja lagi =)

note: lina Q 18 not applicable for me ler..huhuhu takde masa nak tag macam dulu..rindunyer waktu dulu..sekarag da keje..schedule sangat pack!huhu menci!

My 7-month-old lil Aisya

2010-10-13T00:28:00.000+08:00

A simple update for 7-month baby development

Testing, testing...

By now, you may have already told your baby that the telephone is not a toy, or that rattles are not for throwing, or that her sister's hair is not for pulling. At this age your baby may begin testing your authority by refusing to follow your simple directions. She's not really being disobedient or willful — just curious.

Keep in mind that she also simply can't remember things you tell her for more than a couple of seconds at a time. The best tactic is to use a simple "no" and then distract her.

Figuring out how objects relate

Your baby's beginning to understand how objects relate to one another in three-dimensional space. She may be able to sort toys, grouping smaller items by size. Babies instinctively combine objects by stacking them and, as they get older, trying to fit them inside one another.

If your baby admires her reflection in a mirror and you suddenly appear behind her image, she's likely to turn and look for you instead of believing that you're in the mirror itself.

A simple game of peek-a-boo might be absolutely fascinating to your baby. That's because she's starting to understand object permanence (that an object she can't see can still exist) and loves games in which people or things appear and disappear.

Your baby can now straighten her back and twist her trunk as she sits. This ability enables her to sit for longer periods of play.

selamat hari jadi jihan 11.10.10

2010-10-10T23:39:00.000+08:00

Your best years are still ahead of you.

You're not getting older, you're getting better.

You'll always be forever young.

Count your life by smiles, not tears. Count your age by friends, not years.

Wishing you all the great things in life, hope this day will bring you an extra share of all that makes you happiest.

May each and every passing year bring you wisdom, peace and cheer.

Hoping that your day will be as special as you are.

May this day bring to you all things that make you smile. Happy Birthday!

May the years continue to be good to you. Happy Birthday!

Happy Birthday, and may all the wishes and dreams you dream today turn to reality.

May this year bring with it all the success and fulfillment your heart desires.

I'm so glad you were born, because you brighten my life and fill it with joy.

10.10.10

2010-10-10T22:48:00.000+08:00

Salam semua,

harini hari yang comel sebab dapat date 10.10.10 =)

sempena harini, kami sekeluarga buat makan2 (kalau kata open house, 1M bole datang..ehehe) ni utk kwn2 en hubby sahaja.. untuk meraikan hari raya sebenarnya..hehehe..okeh, semua berjalan dgn sempurna..alhamdulilah.. =)

millions thanx to my beloved ayah iaitu "bak" sebab masak utk ktorg..wpon tpaksa stay up okeh!

saya lama da tak update belog ni sebab bz kerja..stat last week.. bangun kul 615 then gerak kul 7 bawak aisya untuk anta ke rumah pengasuh..then saya tiba di ofis kul 815 =)..balik kul 6 ambik aisya then sampai rumah kul 8mlm.. mmg penat =p

kerja..okla.. baru nak belajar guna system n process so mmg kura2la..huhu

esok? my birthday!!! =)

bonia shoes for sale (preloved)

2010-10-01T23:32:00.001+08:00


Brand bonia for sale!!!

http://jihan-story.blogspot.com/2010/08/myminibundle-lelong-lelong.html

Cabutan Gigi Geraham Bungsu

2010-09-29T20:00:00.002+08:00

Salam Semua,

intro:

Gigi bungsu / wisdom teeth/ geraham ketiga/ impacted teeth seringtumbuh tidak sempurna sehingga perlu dicabut dengan operasi untukmencegah komplikasi yang lebih parah. Beberapa kalangan engganmelakukan tindakan operasi mengingat kekhawatiran akan efek sampingnya.
Benarkah demikian?
Gigi geraham ketiga sering disebut juga gigi geraham bungsu erupsiatau tumbuh terakhir yaitu antara umur 17-21 tahun. Gigi ini seringmenimbulkan masalah karena mulai erupsi di saat pertumbuhan rahang kitasudah berhenti sehingga tidak mendapat cukup ruangan untuk erupsi.Dengan demikian gigi ini tumbuh tidak sempurna dengan posisi yang tidaktepat atau impaksi.

semalam pagi saya cakap kat en hubby yg gigi saya da sakit.. asik berdenyut2 aje sejak bulan puasa ni..ish takkan nak telan ponstan je stiap malam kan.. so, sebenarnya en hubby pon mengalami perkara yang sama.. stiap malam kami dgn sehati sejiwanya mengeluh sakit gigi..

aisya? dia lain plak.. menrengek sebab nak tumbuh gigi =p

so, semalam kami nekad g klinik pergigian UTM utk buat cabutan gigi geraham bell nih... sebenarnya saya sangat takot sebab

saya:long, ko tengok gigi blakang aku ni mmg kene cabut ek?

along: bukan cabut je, kene buat minor operation okeh!

saya: hah?

along: sebab gigi ko tumbuh tak betol!

saya: takpe r.. aku tahan je sakit

ktorg sampai after lunch.. sebenarnya tak bagus cabut gigi wktu petang sebab darah akn lmbat berenti mcm darah saya + hubby =p

saya dulu okeh!

mula2 along inject biar kebas.. 4 kali gakla sy tgk dia cucuk.. bleh tahan lagi..

then tggu dalam 15min sampai kebas... patu along goyang2 kn n cucuk2.. langsung tak sakit berlagak!

after that, dia mintak playar dgn assistance dia, saya da cuak!

saya: ape long, PLAYAR??

then, than sikit dalam 3 minit, selesai! (tahan sikit tu ertinya tahan sakit!) okeh suda!

finally along pesan,

1. balik jangan kumur sebab darah tak berenti nanti

2. sila makan ice-cream atau benda sejuk sahaja after cabut gigi okeh sebab biar gigi kebas n darah cepat berenti

3. sebelom sakit, sila telan ponstan kalau taknak hidup dihantui kesakitan =p

nak tau kenapa perlu cabut gigi geraham bungsu ini?

sila layari :

http://www.dentiadental.com/articles/gigi-geraham-bungsu-perlukah-dicabut/

Pengasuh @ Babysitter

2010-09-29T12:01:00.000+08:00

saya start kerja pada 4 october 2010 sebagai ..... di ..... =p

so, benda pertama yg saya fikir ialah Aisya yg berumur 7 bulan pada oktober nnt.. okla kan selama 9 bulan + 7 bulan saya jaga dia n now, saya perlu bekerja utk bantu suami =)

owh.. tapi Master saya still on okeh!! cita2 tu masih ada untuk kerja di education line cuma sekarang perlu kumpul banyak experience dulu okeh.

so, 1st question adalah,

Where can I find a babysitter?

jwpn:

Word of mouth is a good wayto gather names of teens and adults in your area who like to babysit.Ask your friends, neighbors, relatives, fellow parents, and yourchild's doctor if they know of any trustworthy candidates. Also, someurban areas have a nonprofit childcare referral service — ask fellowparents if such a service exists in your area.

kadang2 ada org yg bertuah sebab dapat babysitter yg sangat baik n nak jaga anak kita sebab dia suka budak2 bukan sebab dia nak $$ sahaja.

dpn2 kita baik je..blakang kita, kita sgt harap baby sitter jg anak kita mcm kita jugak kan.. Allah nmpk tau!

next, i nak share some tips or sign of babysitter (bad @ good)

You may have trouble on your hands if:

• Your baby isn't happy to see the sitter and has become anxious and withdrawn.A regular caregiver can never replace Mom or Dad, but a baby needs totrust and love his babysitter. Perhaps your child and caregiver haven'tbonded, or the babysitter just isn't providing the kind of warmth andcomfort your child needs. As in every human relationship, having theright chemistry is important. (If you suspect something more serious iswrong, educate yourself about the signs of child abuse.)

• Your babysitter seems secretive about how they spent the day.How your baby and his caregiver spend their time shouldn't be a secret.When you come home, you're probably eager to hear about your child andwhat happened while you were apart. If your caregiver isn't forthcomingabout it, either she's not good at communicating with you or she hassomething to hide. Even a caregiver whose English is limited should beable to convey the ups and downs of your baby's day, and willunderstand why you want to know.

• Your baby has been in one too many easily avoidable accidents.A babysitter must keep her eye on your child and know what he's doingat all times to prevent injury. She may be leaving your childunattended as he sleeps or plays.

• You notice your requests aren't followed.Both of you are working together to care for your child, so a caregivershouldn't act as if she knows more about him and childrearing than youdo.

• Your babysitter often shows up late. Anundependable caregiver will leave you in the lurch time and time again.Find someone who you know is committed to the job and considerate ofyour needs. Tardiness and unexplained absences may mean she'sunreliable in other ways as well.

• Your baby often looks unkempt and dirty.If your little one's caregiver can't take care of the basics, it may bea sign that she's not on the ball when it comes to meeting your child'sneeds.

• Her stories don't add up. Nevertolerate someone who steals, lies, or deceives you in any way. You haveto be able to trust your caregiver for the relationship to work.

But how do you know she's doing a good job when you're not around

• Your baby warms up to her.It may take a while before your child grows to trust and love hisbabysitter. And even the best caregivers can't replace you or yourpartner. Still, after several sessions together, you should notice yourbaby warming up to the sitter (which doesn't necessarily mean he'sthrilled to see her the minute she walks in the door).

If thisisn't happening, it may be that the babysitter isn't providing the kindof warmth and comfort your child needs. Or maybe their personalitiesjust aren't a good match.

• She's genuinely happy to see your baby.If your babysitter truly enjoys spending time with your baby, you'llknow it – and your child will sense it, too. Her love will shinethrough every time they're together.

• She comes up with creative solutions to problems and works with you to provide the best possible care for your child. If your baby hates tummy time,for example, your sitter will try dangling toys in front of him to makeit more interesting. If your child isn't sleeping, she'll turn to youfor advice. Taking the initiative and collaborating with you shows thatshe takes her job seriously.

• She respects your time.A conscientious babysitter will arrive on time and call to let you knowif she's unexpectedly running late. She'll also give you ample warningwhen she's unable to care for your child – and may even help you find asubstitute caregiver.

• She makes an effort to stay connected. A sitter who takes her job seriously will keep you informed by leaving notes or even filling out a daily report.If you set aside some time for the two of you to catch up, she'llunderstand that you want to know how your child is doing, and she'llkeep you abreast of any problems, big or small.

• Your baby is clean, and messes aren't left for you.Cleanliness is a sign of conscientiousness. You want your sitter to befocused on your child, not busy cleaning your home, but she should tidyup any messes she or your baby makes. She should also wipe off yourchild's face and hands whenever they get dirty.

• Accidents are infrequent.Of course tumbles will happen, but a good sitter makes safety apriority both at home and when she and your child are out and about.She'll look both ways before pushing the stroller across the street,keep a close eye on your child at the playground, and make sure safetygates stay closed.

If the sitter drives your child, you'll wantto drive with her yourself at least once or twice to see what she'slike on the road. You'll also want to make sure that her car isreliable, a car seat for your child is properly installed, and that shealways buckles your baby up safely.

my.mini.bundle -Lelong!! lelong!!

2010-09-28T00:26:00.004+08:00

002- Fasion Bag

RM7 + RM5 (Postage Fee)

002 - Miss Soprani

RM15 + RM5 (Postage Fee)

Brand:Luciano Soprani
Color:Silver


005- Fashion Bag

RM5 + RM5 (Postage Fee)

used but in good condition

material : baldu


006 - Fashion Bag RM7 + RM5 (Postage Fee) used but in good condition


007 - Voir

RM 15 (Including Postage Fee)

Brand:Voir

Size:37

used once

without box

015- Jubah @ Pregnency wear

RM23 + RM7 (Postage Fee)

Size 38

Color :Dark Blue

never worn

Retail : RM69

never worn


016-Sleeveless Dress

RM40 + RM7 (Postage Fee)

Brand :Envee (Alamanda)

Size Free Saiz

Retail Price: RM169

never worn

024

RM9 + RM5 (Postage Fee)

Size 38

Color : White

never worn

RM25 + RM7 (Postage Fee)

026

027

RM17 + RM5 (Postage Fee)

material:Cotton

Size 40~42

Color :Blue and Red

Suitable for pregnant women

never worn

retail : RM39

035 - Blouse

RM17 + RM5 (Postage Fee)

material:Cotton

Size S (Sloulder 36-38)

Color : Purple

used once

retail : RM45

037- Set Kebaya

RM100 + RM7 (Postage fee)

Material: kain pengantin

buy at Jakel (RM120) + Tempah (RM90)

color: Silver

Size: 38~40 (M)

still new (never worn and never wash)

Which one you intrested and need more info?

Pls sms me @ 019-3366317 or email at norjihan@hotmail.com

Payment method through m2u

You still can bargain the price bcoz the money is yours =)

makan time

2010-09-24T16:45:00.000+08:00

okeh.. haritu saya cerita pasal "solid food" untuk aisya masa dia just turn 6 month old.. so, today nak share pasal makan juge =)

akak saya kata, baby akan boring kalau asik makan benda sama aje stiap hari..

angah: macam ko jgkla.. kalau aku bagi ko nasik dgn ikan kicap ari2 mst ko lari dari rumah kan? saya:hahaha

okeh.. so, saya try mem"variety"kan mknan utk bdk gemuk berkenaan =p

tanda2 suda lapar

i'm ready okeh mama

kdg2 menu : bubur + carrot

kdg2 menu"bubur kosong sahaja


ahh kenyang

sometimes, saya just bg nestum brand "cerelac" sahaja.. now saya bagi aisya "brown rice" flavour..nmpknya dia sangat heppi masa mkn.. n guess wat?? dia da mkn 3 hari sekali okeh!!!

siapla makin bun2 nnt =p

Pengasas Sendayu Tinggi pakai purdah‏

2010-09-24T12:34:00.001+08:00

Saya baru tau cerita ini.. tapi nak share jugak sebab takot2 ada yang tertinggal ERL mcm saya =p

saya kagum dgn dia n saya harap saya dapat petunjuk dan hidayah dari Allah ke jalan yang lurus dan diredhai oleh Allah, AMIN

Rasanya sudahramai yang tahu tentang kesusahan lampau saya kerana banyak majalahmenyiarkan cerita itu. Niat saya tiada lain, hanya mahu menjadipencetus semangat untuk wanita di luar sana. Biar mereka tahu, sebagaimanusia jangan terlalu mengharapkan orang lain untuk berjaya dalamhidup.

Saya pernah jadipenoreh getah, sambil-sambil itu melakukan bermacam-macam kerja kampunguntuk menampung hidup. Malah pernah juga cuba berniaga kedai runcit,menyertai MLM dan bekerja kilang.

Apabila berjayadengan perniagaan Sendayu Tinggi, saya mula sedar manusia perlu adatiga sifat jika mahu berjaya. Pertama, mereka mesti mengorak langkahuntuk memulakan perkara kecil dalam diri. Kemudian, jangan pernahberkata tidak sebelum mencuba kerana tiada apa yang mustahil. Ketiga,jangan suka menyalahkan orang lain.

Nilai sepuluh sen
Bila sudahberjaya mengumpul kekayaan, tiap-tiap tahun saya pergi umrah. Adabanyak peristiwa yang dialami di tanah suci namun ada satu pengalamanyang paling menarik. Ia berlaku ketika saya tidur lalu bermimpi, satusuara menyuruh saya membaca beberapa ayat daripada surah Al-Baqarah.

Sekembalinyasaya ke tanah air, saya terus mencari tafsir Al- Quran. Saya mendapatiantara maksud ayat yang disuruh baca itu ialah mereka yang mendapathidayah namun jika memalingkan mukanya, mungkin tiada lagi hidayahuntuknya selepas itu.

Saya memangsudah lama terdetik mahu berganjak ke alam (fasa) lain sebaik sahajausia mencecah 40 iaitu membuat persediaan untuk mati. Saya mula melihatbetapa kehidupan di dunia ini sangat singkat, indah dan perludinikmati. Saya sedih mengenang ramai orang yang berjaya dalamperniagaan tetapi hidup tidak bahagia.

Ketika sayamengejar dunia, hidup dirasakan huru-hara. Pernah saya beli sebuahkereta dengan harga RM1 juta. Setiap kali tiba di satu-satu tempat,saya senang melihat banyak mata memandang dan berbisik-bisik kagum.Namun lama-kelamaan saya tersedar, rasa bangga melihat kekaguman orangitu menimbulkan perasaan riak dan mahu menunjuk-nunjuk.

Jika syilingsepuluh sen terjatuh, pernah satu ketika saya tidak mahu mengutipnyasemula. Waktu itu saya memikirkan kelas sebagai seorang jutawan. Tetapihari ini, saya tidak mahu lagi bersikap begitu. Saya mahu buang rasariak, sebab nilai duit sepuluh sen itu besar nilainya pada sesetengahorang dan tidak patut dibazirkan begitu sahaja.

Saya tidakpandai mengaji dan tidak tinggi ilmu agama. Jadi saya mengupah seorangustazah yang tinggal bersama di rumah ini untuk mengajar serta seorangustaz untuk berkongsi ilmu agama. Sehari setiap minggu, rumah sayadibuka untuk orang ramai menyertai majlis ilmu yang dibuat di sini.

Impian saya yangmasih belum tercapai ialah membina sebuah kompleks hasil perniagaan. Dikompleks berkenaan saya mahu membangunkan aktiviti dakwah di sampingmemberikan kehidupan kepada fakir miskin menerusi perkongsian ideologiperniagaan.

Sayatidak mahu golongan susah yang saya bantu ini memandang saya sebagaisumber kewangan. Saya tidak memberikan mereka ‘ikan’ tetapi ‘pancing’untuk mengubah kehidupan. Caranya saya beri mereka produk untukdipasarkan. Saya juga mengambil kuih, kerepek dan lain-lain daripada mereka untuk dijual.

Satu lagi impianyang sedang diusahakan, saya mahu bina sebuah rumah perlindungan untukanak yatim piatu dan mualaf. Rumah sudah ada, tenaga pengajar pun tidakada masalah. Cuma tinggal mencari bayi dan kanak-kanak untuk dibesarkandengan pendidikan akademik berserta ilmu agama di rumah tersebut.

Kini mula berpurdah
Purdah inisudah lima bulan saya pakai. Bukan sebab alim, dan bukan juga sebabH1N1. Sebaliknya inilah antara cara saya menjaga hati daripada dirasukperasaan riak. Bila mengenakan purdah, tiada orang yang mengenali sayajadi tiada lagi layanan istimewa yang biasa saya dapat.

Saya tidak maluuntuk mengaku, selama ini memang saya pakai tudung tetapi hati masihkotor. Ini kerana walaupun memakai tudung saya sering kalah bilasyaitan berbisik supaya bersolek setiap kali ke luar rumah sesuaistatus selaku pengasas produk kecantikan.

“Kau kenalah pakai baju yang menampakkan kelangsingan, barulah orang tahu produk kau bagus”- itu juga antara bisikannya yang sering menewaskan saya. Barangkaliketika itu saya antara wanita akhir zaman yang disebut dalam hadis‘menutup aurat tetapi masih bertelanjang’ .

Sebagai majikanpula, kadangkala saya memarahi pekerja kerana mahu semuanya serbasempurna. Saya menjadi sungguh takut apabila tersedar dan berfikirbagaimana pula saya di sisi majikan paling besar iaitu Allah Taala? Diapun berhak marahkan saya kerana sungguhpun solat, di mana zikir danamalan sunat bagi menyempurnakan lagi amalan kepadanya?

Syukurlah, perubahan yang dibuat melimpahkan bahagia dalam hidup. Anak-anak (Nurhayati, Alif Syukri, Aiman Hazim, Nurazizah dan Nurain Sufiyah) dan suami melengkapkan lagi dunia wanita ini.

Kini hari-harisaya lalui sambil meneguk kelazatan ilmu akhirat. Melayan keletahanak-anak, mengulit orkid, epal Madura, daun kesum, kedondong, kari,limau purut dan pokok herba lain; juga melayan burung, ayam, lampam,puyuh, puyu dan tilapia melengkapkan lagi kediaman bak syurga duniayang saya gelar Sorga Ammi.

Sesudah solatSubuh, tatkala berdiri di balkoni rumah menyaksikan kabus berlaludibawa angin sambil merenung kalam-kalam bukit , saya semakin yakinbetapa perlunya saya bersyukur menjadi hamba yang dilimpahi kasihsayangNya.

“Sweet & Cute Baby ‘Exploration Time’ Contest”

2010-09-23T12:05:00.000+08:00

Dis contest saya join from belog -> MaMaLieYna

and

pada sesiapa yang nak join, jom!! pls join okeh!!

http://mamalieyna.blogspot.com/2010/09/sweet-cute-baby-exploration-time.html

my pic

Nur Aisya Nabila Bt Mohd Fauzi

6 month

pic taken masa Aisya meng"explore" stereng kete ayah dia

Aisya sangat pantang kalau naik kereta je mst nak pegang stereng dulu =)

enjoy n thanx to penganjur!! =)

update

2010-09-23T00:20:00.000+08:00

huhu.. lama gila tak tulis2 kat belog saya ni.. saya sangat busy okeh sebab after balik cuti raya ~~sakan~~ saya tinggal kat rumahmak selama seminggu.. then balik je pasir gudang (my home!) kemas2 n rehat2 patu decide utk ikot my parent ke Kl sebab nak setelkan prob thesis saya ni selama 2 minggu.. so, hubby kene tinggal lagi..

guess what? saya ada heppi story but nnt saya cite k =p

ok, tengok dulu gmbo raya =)

first day raya =)

tahun ni my family's turn!

my small family

ewah2 aisya

dia suke buat muka takda perasaan tau

sempat jalan2 ke angsana!!

opps.. can c my bun-bun

hehe

baju raya da abis

ini cuma gaya sahaja =p

Salam Lebaran

2010-09-08T15:00:00.000+08:00

okeh sume kawan 2.. petang ini selepasa suami balik opis, kami akan balik kampung!!! horey!!

mula2 saya akan ke pontian (bak masak nasi beryani, so dia suh makan sekejap!)
kemudian trus ke segamat, sebelum ke KL, jenguk mertua dulu okeh! (esok nak inject aisya kat umah granma dia)
esok, mungkin petang kami akan ke KL (tahun ni raya rumah famili saya dulu..YEEHA!!!!)
then sabtu giliran rumah hubby kat segamat

ahad kami balik ke pasir gudang!!
isnin kene kejut en hubby g keje..kueng3

okeh, tamat sudah plan perjalanan balik kampung saya..
oleh itu,

SAYA MENGAMBIL KESEMPATAN UNTUK MENGUCAKPAN SELAMAT HARI RAYA

MAAF ZAHIR BATIN KEPADA SEMUA KAWAN

HAVE A SAFE JOURNEY OKEH!

resepi daging kunyit ikan sambal udang sambal dan karipap

2010-09-08T14:44:00.001+08:00


daging goreng kunyit

sangat senang caranya

perap daging dgn kunyit dan garam selama 1 jam (sekurang2nya)
goreng/ rebus daging sehingga empuk
jika rebus, tambahkan minyak setelah air rebusan kering kemudian goreng daging sehingga hilang minyak.
letakkan lada merah, baawng besar dan kacang panjang..kacau2 sekejap dan siap!

ikan sambal

geram betol sebab en suami tak makan ikan sambal ni.. slalu request, ni da masak, takmo makan! huhu


udang sambal

ni lauk terpengaruh dgn Blak dalam "sarjan saji"
hubby tengok patu trus suh saya beli udang n nak buka lauk udang sambal..huhu
resepinya:
bawang putih, serai dan bawang besar di tumis.
masukkn cili kisar dan masak hingga pecah minyak
kemudian masukkan gula, sos cili n kacau
kemudian masukkn sedikit air asam jaawa
masukkn udang yang di goreng
kacau2 kejap dan angkat

pencuci mulut

SAyur daging & iKan Kicap

2010-09-08T14:37:00.001+08:00

Sayur daging

saya ambil resepi sayur daging ini from "Potret Kasih"..mmg sedap dan sesuai untuk saya yang malas nak masak macam2 lauk.. so lauk ni 2 in one oke. ada sayur dan daging =)

Ikan Kicap

senang sajor!!

tumis bawang kecil (4 biji) + bawang putih (1 biji)
tumis juga kayu manis, 2 kelopak bunga lawang, dan biji pelaga

masukkan sos (sesuka hati)
sos tiram, kicap manis + kicap masin + kicap pekat + sos cili
masukan ikan yang dah di goreng
gula sedikit kemudian air dan akhir sekali tambahkan sos tomato untuk pekatkan kuah n bawang besar yang di potong bulat..siap!

Ribena bandung

2010-09-08T14:29:00.001+08:00


ribena bandung maria

okeh!! da lama buat da ribena bandung atas sebab2 terpengaruh dgn Maria Tungku Sabri..ahaks!
sng sahaja caranya okeh semua!!

masukkan susu segar dalam cawan hingga 3/4
kemudian masukkan Ibu ribena (yg blom di bancuh) 3 sudu besar
masukan 1/4 air sejuk (air masak)
kacau2, dan tunggu waktu berbuka!!

6-month-old:

2010-09-06T09:18:00.000+08:00

how-leng2.. sukanya aisya da 6 month!! da stgh tahun da pon, sakit bersalin pon saya da tak rasa lagi okeh!..hahaha..

ok, jom share info utk baby yang 6-month =)

ini rupa budak berumur 6 month =)

da bole duduk..tetapi, sila sokong ye.. tulang belakang tak kuat lagi


sume benda mau mamam, itu suda pasti!

How your baby's growing:

As your baby starts becoming more active, he'll appreciate comfy clothes. Opt for soft fabrics that won't chafe him as he moves around. Loose, stretchy, and breathable clothing will provide your energetic little one plenty of wiggle room.

Avoid clothes that have rough or scratchy seams; long ties, buttons, or bows (which could be a choking hazard); and anything else that gets in the way of your baby's sleeping, crawling, or playing.

Your life: Eating well

Taking care of a baby is, simply put, tiring. Heavy food can make you sleepy afterward, so try to keep meals and snacks light and nutritious. Here are some other helpful tips:

Don't skip breakfast. Tempting though it may be to skip the morning meal when you're rushed, your body needs to refuel after a night's sleep — especially a night without sleep! Protein like eggs and slow-burning carbs with iron such as oatmeal with walnuts and raisins will give you energy to last all morning.

Climb the food pyramid. Aim for those daily 2 1/2 cups of vegetables and 1 1/2 to 2 cups of fruit recommended for women of childbearing age. Keep crudités (cut up raw veggies) ready to eat in your refrigerator. Add diced vegetables to quesadillas, roll-ups, and casseroles. Fruits can be dried, frozen, or canned — all are healthy for you. Make smoothies from fresh or frozen fruit, fruit juice, and yogurt.

Look beyond junk food for pick-me-ups. After a quick burst of energy, chips and candy can leave you feeling more sluggish than before. Look for more nutritious high-energy alternatives such as almonds or peanuts, yogurt, and granola bars. Buy a premade trail mix or concoct your own with dried fruit, raisins, sunflower or pumpkin seeds, nuts, and coconut flakes or chocolate chips.

Count carbs in. Carbohydrates have gotten a bad rap in recent years — but they're a great source of energy and good for you if you eat moderate portions and make healthy choices. Try whole-wheat pasta, multigrain oatmeal, and wheat bread and crackers.

Drink healthy. Remember to stay hydrated by drinking lots of water. Fruit juices, soda, coffee drinks, and energy drinks are trickier — keep an eye on their sugar content, and remember that caffeinated drinks can make you dehydrated.

What's she's know!!??

Rollin', rollin', rollin'

Your baby's stronger neck and arm muscles allow him to practice rolling over toward one side, a milestone that will probably awe and amuse you. Your baby might adopt rolling as his primary mode of ground transportation for a while, or he may skip it altogether and move on to sitting, lunging, and crawling. As long as your baby continues to gain new skills and shows interest in getting around and exploring his environment, don't worry.

Rolling over can be fun for your baby, but it can also be nerve-racking for you. Keep a hand on your baby during diaper changes, and never leave him unattended on a bed or any other elevated surface.

Your little social butterfly

At this age your baby not only tolerates attention from others, he'll often initiate it. Though you may soon notice the beginnings of stranger anxiety, your baby will probably still be fairly indiscriminate: Chances are anyone who approaches him with welcoming eyes or a grin delights him and becomes an instant friend. But don't worry — he still needs and craves lots of love and attention from you.

Your baby is also learning that his behaviors, both the ones you like and the ones you don't, engage you, so starting now (and for years to come) he'll do just about anything to get your attention. Right now almost everything he does is endearing, but as he gets older, he's more likely to get into mischief to provoke a reaction from you. Just don't forget to give him positive feedback when he's being good. It's a great way to start teaching right from wrong.

One thing will become clear: Your baby is beginning to expand his attention-getting repertoire to include more than crying. You may notice him wriggling, making noises, blowing "raspberries," and so on. Over the next three months, he'll develop a uniquely personal way of letting you know what he thinks, wants, and needs.

Dressed for success

As your baby starts becoming more active, he'll appreciate wearing comfy clothes. Opt for soft fabrics that won't chafe him as he's moving around. Loose, stretchy, and breathable clothing is also smart as it provides your energetic little one plenty of wiggle room.

Avoid clothes with rough or scratchy seams; long ties, buttons, or bows (could be a choking hazard); and anything else that gets in the way of your baby's sleeping, crawling, playing, or other regular activities.

In your baby's diaper

Don't be surprised if your baby's stools change color and odor as soon as he starts eating even tiny amounts of solids. This is normal. If his stools seem too firm, switch to other fruits and vegetables and oatmeal or barley cereal. (Rice cereal, bananas, and applesauce may be constipating.)

Baby sign language

If you want to introduce sign language to your baby, now's the time. Her understanding of language and her motor skills develop much faster than her ability to speak. Most babies, for example, discover how to wave (around 9 months) and point (by age 1) long before they can say "bye bye" or "look at that!"

Giving your baby the tools to express herself may help cut down on her frustration. While baby signing doesn't promise to eliminate tears or tantrums, babies this young have been taught to "sign" successfully.

To begin, try using a hand signal every time you use common words such as "book" (open your palms with your hands together) or "hungry" (put your fingers to your lips). Later on, your baby will be able to express more complex ideas such as "I'm done with my juice" with a simple gesture such as putting her palms up at shoulder height.

And don't worry: Signing won't interfere with your baby's progress in learning to speak. In fact, it may actually help develop her language skills.

Lefty or a righty?

Your baby may favor one hand for a while and then switch to the other. But you can't really tell whether she's a lefty or a righty until she's about 2 or 3 years old.

Don't try to influence your baby's hand preference (it's determined before birth). Forcing her to use her right hand when she's really a lefty, for example, may confuse her and lead to problems with hand-eye coordination, dexterity, and handwriting down the road.

Playing games

Your baby will love turn-taking games, especially ones that involve sounds and language. Let your baby be the leader sometimes, and mimic her vocalizations. When it's your turn to lead, a good way to teach — and amuse — your baby is to make animal noises ("quack-quack," "bow-wow").

One upside of these kinds of games is that they can be played anywhere. Your baby will delight in the sounds of water splashing in the bathtub or blocks hitting the floor. Show your baby how to make these fun (if sometimes annoying) noises and then let her have a turn.

Stimulating his senses

Your baby uses all of his senses to explore and learn about his world. Make sure he has lots of safe things around to touch, mouth, and manipulate. He'll love squishing a soft rubber ball, patting a piece of fake fur, gnawing a chilled teething ring, and hearing a bell jingle inside a stuffed animal.

An interesting thing to do: Gather different fabrics and place them next to each other on the floor. Watch your baby's expression as he moves over the varying textures.

Getting a kick out of story hour

Looking at books together will improve your baby's language skills and prime him for a lifelong love of reading. It doesn't matter what type of book you choose. Board books are colorful and sturdy, and books that have pop-up pictures or textured illustrations are also very popular.

Your baby won't have the dexterity to open a book or even flip pages until he's between about 9 and 12 months, and he might not yet have the patience to sit still while you read him a story, but don't give up. No matter what your child's age, reading provides a great opportunity for cuddling and socializing.

Finger foods

Starting now, your baby will probably let you know that he's ready to try eating finger foods by grabbing the spoon you're feeding him with or snatching food off your plate. Scatter four or five pieces of finger food onto your baby's highchair tray or an unbreakable plate. (A highchair — not reclined in a car seat or stroller — is the place to eat to reduce choking hazards.)

Your baby may have a good appetite but not many teeth, so start with foods that he can gum or that will dissolve easily in his mouth. As he grows you'll be able to give him bite-size pieces of whatever you're eating.

Remember that your baby's also learning about texture, color, and smell, so try to offer a variety of foods. Some finger food favorites: O-shaped toasted oat cereal; small chunks of banana or other very ripe, peeled fruit like mango, plum, pear, peach, cantaloupe, or seedless watermelon; small cubes of tofu; well-cooked pasta spirals, cut into pieces; thin cheese strips or very small chunks of cheese; cut-up seedless grapes or cherries (pits removed); blueberries; and small soft pieces of cooked vegetables, like carrots, peas, zucchini, potato, or sweet potato.

Bouncing baby

Your baby can now support some of her weight on her legs, and she loves to bounce — something that can strengthen her muscles for walking later on. Hold her under her arms and help her stand up on the floor or on your lap.

You may need to help her start moving by lifting her off the ground (or your lap) but once she starts, just watch her go! Be ready for lots of giggles.

Handy skills

Your baby's fine motor skills are coming along. By now she can probably scoop things up with one hand and transfer an object from one hand to the other fairly easily. Fine motor skills involve small, precise thumb, finger, hand, and wrist movements and are used for actions like picking up things between the thumb and finger.

Gross motor skills are required for activities like crawling, which use large muscles such as those in the arm, leg, or feet or the entire body. To encourage your baby's development of these skills, place a toy just out of your baby's reach and watch her try to get it. If she cries because she can't quite reach it, give her encouragement — but not the toy. She's just venting frustration and will become more physically confident more quickly if you don't make everything easy for her.

After a few tries, she'll be able to lean forward to grab the toy and then straighten herself again. Before long, she'll be rocking back and forth on her hands and knees or maybe creeping (pushing herself around on her belly) or even repeatedly rolling over to move about the room. Help her move around easily by dressing her in loose, comfortable clothes.

Your baby's also showing an interest in small parts and the details of the objects around her. Her ways of exploring are growing beyond banging and gumming, although those are still part of every toy interaction. As she explores, be sure to keep buttons, coins, safety pins, balloons, rocks, and other choking hazards out of reach.

un friends

At this age, babies tend to gravitate toward stuffed animals, big and small. One might even become your baby's favorite security object. If so, it'll soon be covered in drool and accompanying you everywhere. Don't worry: A "transitional object" like this can be a sign of emerging independence as your little one learns to separate herself from you and depend on herself — slowly but surely.

When adding new members to your plush family, look for soft, well-stitched toys. Other good playthings include balls, nesting cylinders, pop-up toys, and large dolls.

One way to tell if your baby has a favorite plaything or two is by trying to remove it from her. You may now find her protesting loudly when you take something away.

If your baby insists on sleeping with a favorite friend, make sure it's small — your baby could use a larger one as a stepping stool to climb out of her crib or it could impair her breathing if it's too close to her face.

As usual, blog ini akan repeat that,

Remember, your baby is an individual

All babies are unique and meet milestones at their own pace. Developmental guidelines simply show what your baby has the potential to accomplish — if not right now, then soon. If your baby was premature, keep in mind that kids born early usually need a bit more time to meet their milestones. If you have any questions at all about your baby's development, ask your healthcare provider.

okeh!! info menarik kan? sila join website berkenaan!! =)

baby bole menyelam

2010-09-04T10:20:00.001+08:00

okeh.. nak share info pendek jer..dalam blog my fren ada cerita n videonya skali... pls tgk! mst nk trus g swimming pool nih! hehehe

sila clik pada tittle diatas =))

39 PETUA MENAMBAT HATI SUAMI

2010-09-01T19:00:00.003+08:00

Info haru di"share" bersama kawan2.wonderpets! bila bekerja sama semua jadi mudah!
Sumber : http://www.pengantin.com.my

1. Selalu berdoa agar suami sentiasa menyayangi kita. Bila suami balik dari kerja, tegur dan sentuh suami sebelum kita membuat kerja-kerja lain.

2. Tunjukkan keprihatinan dengan bertanya secara khusus mengenai kegiatan suami sepanjang hari. Jika suami dalam mood yang sesuai) Belajar dan berlatihlah untuk mendengar dengan baik dan bertanya dengan tepat. Jangan tergesa-gesa untuk menyelesai masalah suami. Apa yang lebih penting ialah memberi perhatian dan simpati.

3. Luangkan masa yang betul-betul "berkualiti" sekurang-kurangnya 30 minit setiap hari kepada suami.

4. Tanya ibu mertua, abang atau kakak ipar mengenai hadiah yang disukai oleh suami dan belikan hadiah tersebut sebagai cenderahati atau untuk memujuk.

5. Beri pujian terhadap penampilan suami.(rambut, wajah, pakaian kacak, kesederhanaan dan seumpamanya).

6. Cepat-cepat pujuk bila suami marah atau berkecil hati. Minta bantuan suami hanya jika sesuai. Sesuai pada masa, tempat dan jenis profesyennya.

7. Elakkan suami dari menunggu terlalu lama terutama bila bersiap.

8. Bila suami memberitahu yang dia akan pulang lewat, ucapkan terima kasih kerana memberitahu. (Lebih baik beritahu dari tidak beritahu langsung)

9. Bila suami meminta bantuan, buatlah dengan serta merta dengan ikhlas dan gembira dengan tidak mengungkit atau banyak komen. (sesungguhnya Allah sangat gembira perbuatan yang demikian).

10. Ucapkan kata-kata sayang yang romantik pada suami sekurang-kurangnya 2 kali sehari. Jika kita marah, tunggu hingga sejuk. Bila sudah sejuk beritahu suami apa yang mengganggu fikiran secara sopan. Jangan sesekali salahkan suami.

11. Bila suami bercakap, beri perhatian sepenuhnya, hentikan apa jua pekerjaan yang sedang dilakukan.(jika boleh)

12. Bila ingin memesan barang untuk dibeli oleh suami, senaraikannya di atas kertas.Jangan buat suami terpaksa pergi ke kedai 2 atau 3 kali.

13. Tanya suami bila dia ingin berehat atau tidur.

14. Peluk suami dengan penuh kasih sayang sebanyak 7 kali sehari.

15. Telefon suami di tempat kerja hanya apabila ada perkara penting/ kecemasan sahaja. Telefonlah dengan lebih kerap apabila suami menggalakkannya.

16. Jika suami perlu menjauhkan diri sekali-sekala, tanya bila dia akan pulang. Fahamilah, dia perlu bersendirian utk berfikir.

17. Jangan ganggu suami ketika dia sedang asyik melakukan sesuatu yg memerlukan penelitian.

18. Jika suami marah, jangan sekali-kali menjawab, hanya tunduk dan diam (walau pun kita tak bersalah). Terangkan keadaan yang sebenar selepas dia sejuk.

19. Bila meminta bantuan suami : terangkan pada suami dengan jelas mengenai kerja kerja rumah yang perlu bantuan. Beri pilihan kerja yang disukainya. Jangan menyuruh-nyuruh & gunakan perkataan yg sesuai dan lemah lembut.

20. Pesan kepada suami untuk menelefon rumah apabila out-station. Jangan marahi dia jika dia tidak berbuat demikian cuma terangkan akan kerisauan kita apabila tidak mendapat berita.

21. Sentiasalah kemas, anggun dan wangi sebelum tidur bersama.

22. Sokong pendapat suami kalau pendapatnya berbeza dgn org lain.

23. Peluk dan belai suami sekali-sekala tanpa implikasi seksual.

24. Bila keluar berkereta: Jangan ganggu suami yang sedang memandu (walau pun ada jalan yg lebih dekat atau kita sendiri boleh memandu dgn baik.)

25. Jangan menunjuk-nunjuk yang kita tahu jalan selagi tidak dipinta berbuat demikian. Jangan berleter bila suami tersalah jalan semasa memandu. Bersangka baik apabila tersesat jalan.

26. Sabar dan tenang bila mendengar cerita atau masalah suami.

27. Jangan tukar-tukar saluran televisyen bila menonton bersama suami.

28. Jaga maruah suami terutama di khalayak ramai dan ikut kehendak suami diketika itu.Segala bantahan boleh dilakukan semasa berdua-duaan.

29. Bila berpegangan tangan, peganglah sebagaimana yg disukai suami.

30. Buatlah air minuman untuk suami tanpa diminta dan tanpa bertanya "Abang nak minum air apa?" atau " Abang nak minum ke?"

31. Bila makan diluar, berilah peluang pada suami untuk memilih tempat / meja mana yang disukai. Tanyakan pada suami bagaimana kita perlu berkelakuan dikhalayak ramai ketika disisinya.

32. Sentiasa bersegera apabila bersiap & jgn tiba-tiba ingin menukar baju yg dipakai.

33. Sentiasa lebihkan suami daripada anak-anak.(jika sesuai)

34. Belikan hadiah-hadiah praktikal dari semasa-ke semasa:- tali pinggang, kasut,cermin mata hitam dan seumpamanya.

35. Beri layanan istimewa pada suami di hari-hari istimewa. Pergi " dating" atau " berbulan madu" sekali sekala.

36. Jika suami melakukan kesalahan/kesilapan, jangan sesekali menempelak atau "pulangkan paku buah keras ".

37. Hantar kad ucap selamat pada hari-hari istimewa.

38. Urut mengurut suami dari semasa ke semasa.

39. Layanlah suami sepertimana kita melayannya semasa baru-baru kenal dahulu.

Teh Afrika dan Khasiatnya

2010-09-01T13:00:00.000+08:00

Google pictures

http://www.f-buzz.com/tag/jantung/

Just nak share tentang kebaikan Teh Afrika ini..

okeh, introduction..bagaimana bole nak cerita?

sebenarnya last few week (1st week Ramadhan) my sis n bak bawak mak ke Darussyifa' utk buat rawatang islam. FYI, mak saya sakit jantung..jantungnya tersumbat n Dr tak dapat buat operation or bypass or anything else..last choice will be medication only..

sebab sangat sedih tengok keadaan mak, kami bawak mak jumpa Ustaz di sana.. then setelah mak cerita kat Ustaz tu tentang penyakit mak (jantung), bla3.. ustaz tu bagitau yg ubat2 kita makan tu adalah "poison" da terang lagi bersuluh..tentu2 kat plastik n kotak2 n botol2 ada tulis "this is poison"..kan..kan..kan..

so, "poison" akan makan seluruh sel2 dalam badan kita.. sesetengah ubat tu bertindak untuk kurangkan sakit jantung tetapi akan pindah penyakit pada benda lain..

sebagai contoh, Ustaz cakap" ubat sakit jantung akan sebabkan hilang selera makan and ubat kencing manis akan hilangkan nafsu batin kita"

then dia beri mak daun Teh Afrika suruh kunyah setiap hari (Mak kata sangat pahit okeh!) Ustaz tu baik sangat sebab bagi dgn batang2 sekali suruh bak tanam =) da tumbuh pon daunnya..cepat..cucuk sahaja!

kebaikan Teh Afrika bole la Google ok! ustaz pesan suh Google =)

ini saya nak share sikit!

Teh (Camellia sinensis) dikenali juga dgn teh Cina, Sri Lanka, Jepun, Indonesia, atau teh Afrika. Teh hijau, seperti juga teh hitam, berasal dari tumbuhan yang sama.

Teh hijau diproses dengan cara khusus.
Setelah dipetik, daun teh akan dikeringkan, namun tidak sampai mengubah warna daun.

Proses ini utuk kekalkan zat teh itu. Antarnya:-

1. Antioksidan & polyphenol

mampu mengurangi risiko penyakit jantung, membunuh sel tumor, dan menghambat pertumbuhan sel kanser paru-paru, kanser usus terutama sel kanser kulit. Selain itu kedua zat ini dapat membantu kelancaran proses pencernaan makanan.

2. Fluoride

mineral yang dapat mencegah pertumbuhan karies pada gigi, mencegah radang gusi, dan gigi berlubang.

3. Mangan

membantu penguraian gula menjadi energy sehingga membantu menjaga kestabilan kadar gula dalam darah.

4. Kafein

Kadar kafein yang terkandung dalam teh hijau hanya sebanyak 3 – 5%. Jadi jika kita rajin minum teh, maka tubuh dan fikiran akan terasa lebih segar. Kafein berpengaruh positif pada aktiviti mental, dan dapat memperbaiki proses pencernaan makanan. Pencernaan yang baik akan membakar lemak dalam tubuh lebih efisyen.

5. Tanin
mampu mencegah dan mengubati gangguan ginjal. Sementara itu daun teh yang masih basah dapat digunakan sebagai kompres kulit yang terkena gigitan serangga, terbakar sinar matahari, atau sebagai penyegar untuk mata yang lelah.

Aisya growth on track!

2010-09-01T12:36:00.000+08:00

saya suka berangan depan camera mama!

ok2.. mahu cerita tentang my lil daughter yang bulan ni berumur 6 bulan.. wee kejap je rasa..padahal macam baru je semalam called along

saya:along, aqel dulu masa pandai ketawa tu umo dia berapa long?

along: lama lagila dik.. nanti masa 6 bulan.. ko ni terlebeh suda betol!

saya:ok papai!

pejam celik pejam celik da 6 bula.. horey!! aisya mmg growth on track! serius nih!

sekarang hobi baru dia suka geleng kepala.. (asal geleng je mama cakap taknak! taknak! taknak!)

one month

1. Head's up!

2. The first real smiles

3. Sound asleep
4. Baby talk/face expression-gurgle, coo, grunt, and hum
5. Reaching out
6. Eyes can track objects

two month
1. can differentiate familiar voices - ma-ma, ma-ma ~~(takmo ajar a-yah, a-yah..haha!)~~
2. touch a wider variety of objects
3. putting everything in her mouth
4. able to move from her side to her back and her back to her side.
5. movements are getting a bit more coordinated
6. start making friends with other
7. first discovered her hands- puts them in her mouth, and tries to suck on them 8. steady now - able to lift her head and hold it up for several moments

three month
1. able to recognize me as her mom and ayah as her dad
2. Coordinating arms, legs, and hands
3.Nodding off
4. Beginning to interact with others
5. start to favor one hand for a while and then switch to the other
6. more selective about people

four month
1. able to make some vocal sounds - mak, mak ~~(hep, ni mama la..bukan mak!)~~
2. Playing solo and Exploring objects
3. Sitting pretty
4. new sound
5. peaceful goodnight for her and for mama ~~(just bangun nak susu jer)~~
6. able to recognize her name
7. da boleh posim depan camera! ~~(ini dasyat!)~~

five month
1. Homing in on sounds
2. A growing range of emotions
- clear ways when she's angry, bored, or happy
- raising her arms when she wants to be picked up
- crying when you leave the room.
- give mama hugs and kisses.
- laugh at funny expressions
3.Strong enough to feed herself - sitting position and More discerning in spooting object
4. noise level increasing-Banging, shaking, and mouthing
5. Exploring with her hands-rake object toward herself, start moving objects from one hand to the other.
6. Your baby the babbler - want mama to understand the sound she make
7. real rolled over
8. Rollin', rollin', rollin' -need more space. so now, 1 toto tu dia punya!

okeh! now, in 6 month ~12 month will update later okeh =)

with her brother =)

Tips Rumahtangga from Ziana zain

2010-09-01T11:23:00.000+08:00

“Bagi saya, antara suami isteri perlu ada perbincangan dan komunikasi, selain toleransi. Mesti ada perbincangan daripada hati ke hati, jangan sekali-kali berahsia. Berprasangka buruk dengan pasangan masing-masing pun tak boleh. Cemburu tetap ada, tapi jangan cemburu buta! Insya-Allah rumah tangga kita akan diberkati Tuhan,”

my work personality

2010-08-31T13:35:00.001+08:00

Personality test taken on : 31 August 2010

At a Glance

• Punctual, completes work on time.

• Focused on tasks, persists until job is done.

• Objective, but may appear detached.

• Does not seek positions of power or authority.

• Concerned with prestige, recognition, rank and reputation.

• Sees people as nice and friendly, not comfortable to wheel and deal.

• Orderly, methodical and systematic, takes care to plan in detail.

• Needs clear and thorough instructions, slow to act when uncertain.

While at Work

Ms Muzlan is prepared to put in hard work moderately but she may at times prefer to work at
her own pace.

Time is a major concern for Ms Muzlan. She is frequently punctual and even early for
appointments. When time is critical, she moves quickly and acts promptly. Having a
sense of urgency means that Ms Muzlan pushes to get things done when there is a
deadline and allocates time properly when planning or organising activities. She can
be depended upon to get work done on schedule.

Ms Muzlan persists with a task until it is completed. Determination, commitment
and perseverance are her strength; hence she can be depended upon to meet work
obligations. Ms Muzlan is suitable for long-term projects because she is sufficiently
focused to see them through completion.

Ms Muzlan is able to produce work that is moderately high in quality but she may
at times be careless.

Ms Muzlan is an objective person who is impartial and rational. She speaks factually
and often does not involve her own feelings and emotions. She may sometimes be
perceived as distant or detached.

Although Ms Muzlan is usually a sympathetic person, she may at times be selective
about being involved in the personal problems of people.

Ms Muzlan is friendly and outgoing when she is with friends although she may at
times prefer to be quiet.

Ms Muzlan selectively forms strong bonds with people although these bonds may
not be very deep.

Positions of power, influence and authority are not Ms Muzlan's concern.
She does not mind letting others assert authority over her. She is accommodating,
laid back and easy-going.

Ms Muzlan is concerned with position and status. She cares about how people
view her. Prestige, quality, rank and reputation are important to her. She is
likely to be brand-conscious and would attach significance to status symbols.
She takes pride in her appearance.

Ms Muzlan sees people as friendly, reliable and honest. She is trusting and believes
what people say. She tends to be unsuspecting of people.s behaviour and motives.
She is uncomfortable when she has to wheel and deal.

Ms Muzlan's leadership qualities are moderate and she is sometimes able to get the
support of people.

Ms Muzlan is as keen to explore abstract concepts when the topic appeals to
her and she is as interested to discuss theoretical issues as the average person.

Being orderly, methodical and systematic, Ms Muzlan spends considerable time
planning ahead and organizing activities. She ensures that programmes are
scheduled properly and takes care to plan in detail. Formulating procedures and
policies is her forte.

Ms Muzlan is generally able to express herself although not to a high degree
of eloquence.

Being one who needs clear and thorough instructions before she can proceed
on action, Ms Muzlan resists when conditions are uncertain. She does not
adapt easily to changes. Before she embarks on a new project, expect
Ms Muzlan to find out more and probe deeply.

Summary

You have received this report because you have completed your Personality
Profiling on JobsCentral. You may or may not understand the information fully.
However do take a moment to reflect bearing in mind that your decisions are
based on these sub-dimensions. This report can help you understand yourself
better once you start making use of the information.

WORK			RELATIONS
A	Hard Work	12	D	Affection	7
B	Time	20	E	Empathy	13
C	Finish Job	17	F	Sociability	11
P	Good Work	14	G	Loyalty	13

CONTROL			THOUGHT
H	Dominance	9	L	Abstraction	14
I	Status	16	M	Planning-Organizing	17
J	Politics	6	N	Exposition	11
K	Leadership	11	O	Tolerance Ambiguity	9

juadah berbuka

2010-08-30T15:42:00.001+08:00

okeh!! harini nak share juadah berbuka yang da basi da..hikhikhik i mean, da lama tapi tak post lagik kat cni


juadah semalam

satu: sotong hitam
dua: ayam + tempe goreng
tiga: samosa
empat: sayur

juadah semalam punya semalam

satu: sayur kailan ikan masin
dua: mee goreng
tiga:ayam masak kicap serai
empat : ikan goreng

nak share resepi for

satu:sotong masak kicap

sotong di bersihkan dan jangan buang hitamnya okeh!
letak dalam tapis dan letakkan:
1. serbuk kunyit sedikit sahaja
2. bawang besar potong buah
3. lada merah di hiris kasar

Panaskan kuali, masukkan minyak sedikit kemudian tuangkan sotong tadi
gaul2 sehingga keluar hitam dan tambahkan sedikit sos tiram + air +gula +garam
kacau2 sedikit dan siap!!

dua: kailan ikan masin

ini resepi from my sista

tumbukkan satu bawang merah dan satu inci halia
goreng ikan masin dan ketepikan
perahan air limau

panaskan minyak kemudian masukkan bahan tumbuk kacau sehingga wangi
kemudian masukkan ikan masin, kacau. Tambah sos tiram dan sedikit air dan juga batang sayur tadi
masukkan sayur setelah mendidih dan kacau sedikit kemudian perahkan air limau.
tadaaa siap!

tiga: ayam kicap serai resepi ni from blog Potret kasih okeh! sedap2 tau resepinya

saya gunakan hanya 5 ketul ayam
(ayam perlu di goreng terlebih dahulu)
kemudian,
tumiskan bahan tumbuk (1 bawang besar, 2 bawang putih, 1 inci halia, 1 batang serai di ketuk, 6 biji cili padi)
setelah naik bau, masukan sos (3 sudu kicap manis, 1 sudu sos tiram, 1 sudu sos cili)
tambahkan air
bila mendidih, masukkan ayam dan tomato!

siap..memang sedap!!

empat: mee goreng

okeh, makanan kegemaran saya nih

tumbuk 4 biji bawang merah dan 1 bawang putih
tumiskan bersama cili kisar(amountnya ikot suka nak pedas atau tidak)
kemudian setelah naik minyak, masukkan kicap pekat,
kemudian pecahkan telur dan kacau laju2 tau
masukkan mee + sedikit air dan kacau
tambahkan sedikit gula
bila da sebati, dan kering tutupkan api =)

selamat mencuba daripada chef kecik!
hehehe

Blogwalking Award 2010

2010-08-30T11:46:00.000+08:00

Thanx to Lina Rahim sebab give me dis award okeh! =)

Q & A Session.

1. Apa yang bermain di fikiran anda sekarang?
bila aku nak mandi nih!

2. Apakah nama samaran anda?
jihan

3. Berikan 3 orang yang anda sayang
1. mak saya

2. bak saya
3. Mohd Fauzi

4. Panggilan anda untuk si dia
Sayang kueng3

5. Hadiah yang anda impikan dari seseorang yang istimewa
Pls belikan honda Civic =p

6. Blog yang anda suka visit
blog jual barang baby untuk anak sayep! seronok okeh bila surf.bole tak jadi keje =p

7. Tag kan 15 blogger

Sumerla yang terbaca entry ini..zassss!!

Contest Teman Sejati By Emieusandra

2010-08-30T11:38:00.001+08:00

Huhu harap2 tak lambatla nak join contest ni ye cik emiey sandra =) sebenarnya da lama nak join tapi carik balik blog emy ni tak jumpe..its ok kalau terkeluar sebab tak memenuhi syarat (tarikh tutup 30th August 2010) ~~(buat muke kesian)~~

okeh, saya join contest teman sejati ni di Sini tau... contest lain dari yang lain. suke~ =)

hadiah untuk 2 org pemenang bertuah sahaja!!

saya berdoa semoga saya dapat masuk dalam lis contest ini =)

My best Friend is

Fairuz Shahida Bt Sulaiman

Saya stat kenal dia di Uniten semasa kami mula2 masuk U (ecececec) masa tu bulan Julai 2003. Sebenarnya saya terlebih dahulu berkawan dgn lagi 2 org teman serumah saya selepas kami habis sesi orentasi. sama dgn dia situasinya. tetapi kami rasa terasing sebab saya bertiga (saya, Faz dan Yus), dia juga bertiga (dia, Uni dan Fara).. oleh itu, sebabkan situasi "Terasing" kami tu sama, kami decide utk jadi kwn!! walaupon kadang2 kami bergado, kami tetap share katil =)

start dari tu kami berkawan,

dia sangat baik! saya sangat jahat!

dia sangat lembut! saya sangat kasar!
dia sangat penyabar! saya cepat marah!

dia suka beli makanan! saya tolong perabiskan!

dia sangat pemalu, saya sangat tak tahu malu!

dia pendiam! saya kepoh!

dia berani! saya penakot!

dia rajin! saya malas!

in summary,

we compliment each other!! macam nescafe dgn cofee mate =p

i love her so much n owest pray for her!!

oleh kerana dia rakan sejati saya, saya harusla tag dia okeh! hehehe

Fairuz Shahida

n another one will be!!

Lina Rahim

Friendly Blogger Award

2010-08-30T10:22:00.000+08:00

Salam semua, saya dgen bangganya nak tunjuk n nak beritahu yg saya dapat 1st ~~(kesian tau baru dapat 1st award seumur hidup).~~ Award "FRIENDLY BLOGGER AWARD" ni ditujukan khas utk saya frm my beautiful visible friend iaitu Cik Lina ~~(panggil puan kang di katanya tua..keskeskes)~~

Actually saya kenal dia sangat baru...tapi, dia sangat baik! dia suka leave comment kat entry saya =)

tengkiu Lina bagi award ni.. terharu sangat2 =) ~~weee suke =p~~
so, will try to answer the question in order to complete my award...okeh! sile semak cikgu!

1. nyatakan 7 minuman/makanan kegemaran Puan semasa bersahur/berbuka puasa:
1. Teh O
2. Satey
3. Nasik
4. Lauk Ayam

5. Lauk Daging
6. Kurma
7. Murtabak
8..... ~~(jwpn tak diterima sampai lapan okeh!)~~

2. Puan nak beri award ni pada siapa ya?. Hanya 5 sahaja.

1. kak Zaidah
2. Lee

3. Along aka Mama Tina
4. http://icaziesyira.blogspot.com/
5. Nadiey

Solid Food For Baby

2010-08-26T12:16:00.001+08:00

da bole pegang botol sendirik


my 5 month development milestone =)

weee.. saya da 5 month n 2 weeks =)

ini baru raya saya.. gembira sebab mama beli red kaler!

saya da bole diri tegak..sambil mencuba baju raya!

okeh.. semua, asalamualaikum!! =) hari ni nak share aisya development and tentang solid food.. selain daripada pandai rolled over, aisya juga suda pandai pegang botol sendiri n suke nak berdiri jer.. duduk pon bole..saya cuba dudukkan kadang2 tapi dia bongkok (version nak makan kaki) so, saya taknak dudukkan lama2.. cukup just cuba2 sahaja..

nak mandi pon da senang sikit sekarang (during 5 months) sebab dia da bole duduk tegak n berdiri tegak.. so, senang sikit saya nak sabun2, shampoo2, cebok2..kalau tak, berat kemain lain..huhu..

today, saya try bagi dia makan.. so my resepi is very simple.. tak payah nak blend2 bagai.. nak goreng2, tumbuk2, rebus2.. huhu.. payah..zaman moden oke sekarang!

saya cuma perlukan 5 bahan2 sahaja!!

Resepi Bubur Ala Aisya ~~(nak jgk ikot ketuk2 Ramadhan..sket2 nak ada Ala-Ala)~~

2 sudu tepung beras (di supermarket, sila jangan cari kat department baby.cari kat tempat tepung!)
1 cawan air masak
1 scoop susu Aisya
garam + gula

cara2nya:
1. kacau tepung + air + susu + sedikit sahaja garam + gula dalam mangkuk
2. tapiskan masuk dalam periuk
3. masak sehingga letup2..(ala2 jadi bubur sum-sum)
4. tuang dalam mangkuk n tunggu sejuk
5. sumbat dalam mulut aisya

kan da cakap senang jer!


bulan pose takle nak try..huhu

aisya, selera saja makan..
saya: mak, nak bagi aisya berapa suap?
mak:bagi 3-4 suap je sebab takot dia taknak.. lagipon 1st time
saya:ok, adik tunggu bubur sejuk!

saya da ready okeh!

tetapi...nampak gayanya..10-11 suap adala..huhu


momot!


muka puas hati!

now, tau tak aisya tengah buat apa?

tdo!!
haha kenyang sangat! bagus gak.. senang kerja mama =p

Teething

2010-08-25T10:12:00.000+08:00

When will my baby start getting teeth?

The vast majority of babies sprout their first teeth when they're between 4 and 7 months of age. An early developer may get his first white cap as early as 3 months, while a late bloomer may have to wait until he's a year old or more. (In rare cases, a baby's first tooth is already visible at birth.) Whenever the first tooth makes its appearance, celebrate the milestone by taking pictures and noting the date in your child's baby book.

Teeth actually start developing while your baby's in the womb, when tooth buds form in the gums. Teeth break through one at a time over a period of months, and often — but not always — in this order: First the bottom two middle teeth, then the top two middle ones, then the ones along the sides and back. They may not all come in straight, but don't worry — they usually straighten out over time.

The last teeth to appear (the second molars, found in the very back of the mouth on the top and bottom) have usually begun coming into place by your baby's second birthday. By age 3, your child should have a full set of 20 baby teeth, which shouldn't fall out until his permanent teeth are ready to start coming in, around age 6.

What teething symptoms will my baby experience?

Experts disagree about whether teething actually causes symptoms — like fussiness, diarrhea, and fever — or whether these common symptoms are not related to teething at all and just coincidentally appear at the same time as emerging teeth. Regardless, many parents maintain that their teething babies do experience discomfort (though some babies get through the process with no problems at all). The symptoms most likely to trouble a teether include:

• Drooling (which can lead to a facial rash)
• Gum swelling and sensitivity
• Irritability or fussiness
• Biting behavior
• Refusing food
• Sleep problems

Though many parents report that their babies have loose stools, runny noses, or a fever just before a new tooth arrives, most experts don't think teething is to blame for these symptoms. One who does is William Sears, pediatrician and author of The Baby Book. Sears believes that teething can cause diarrhea and a mild diaper rash because your baby's excessive saliva ends up in his gut and loosens his stools. Inflammation in the gums, he thinks, may cause a low fever (under 101 degrees Fahrenheit).

On the other hand, child development experts such as Penelope Leach assert that teething cannot cause fever, diarrhea, vomiting, or loss of appetite and that these are signs of illness that should be checked out. Noted pediatrician T. Berry Brazelton says such symptoms are probably due to an infection unrelated to teething, but that the stress associated with teething could make your child more vulnerable to infection right before a new tooth appears.

The one thing experts agree on is that you should call your child's doctor if your baby has symptoms that worry you or a rectal temperature of 101 degrees F or higher (100.4 degrees F or higher for babies younger than 3 months). The doctor can help determine whether your baby is showing signs of a problem that needs medical attention, like an ear infection. If your baby has loose stools — but not diarrhea — don't worry. The condition will clear up on its own.

What can I do to ease my baby's discomfort?

Give your child something to chew on, such as a firm rubber teething ring or a cold washcloth. If your baby is old enough to eat solids, he may also get some relief from cold foods such as applesauce or yogurt. Giving him a hard, unsweetened teething cracker such as zwieback to gnaw on is another time-honored trick. (Avoid carrots, as they can be a choking hazard.) Simply rubbing a clean finger gently but firmly over your baby's sore gums can ease the pain temporarily, too.

If these methods aren't working, some doctors recommend giving a teething baby a small dose of children's pain reliever such as infants' acetaminophen — but check with your doctor before giving your baby any medication. (Never give your baby aspirin or even rub it on his gums to ease the pain. The use of aspirin in children is associated with Reye's syndrome, a rare but potentially life-threatening condition.)

Rubbing the gums with topical pain relief gel is also an option, but you may want to ask your baby's doctor before trying it. If you use too much, it can numb the back of your baby's throat and weaken his gag reflex (which helps prevent him from choking on his saliva). The gels are generally safe to use, but in rare cases can cause an allergic reaction.

If drool causes a rash on your baby's face, wipe, but don't rub, the drool away with a soft cotton cloth. You can also smooth petroleum jelly on his chin before a nap or bedtime to protect the skin from further irritation.

Berita Takot

2010-08-24T17:52:00.000+08:00

sumber berita harian online ni betol2 takotla..huhu kenapa sekarang ni makin dasyat benda2 yang berlaku? sama2 kita beristifar ye kwn sumer..semoga kita di lindungi Allah Taala. amin

berita takot harini ada dua..
1. pasal budak 6 tahun mati melambung (otak terburai) ~~kan da kata takot~~
cerita kat cni dan sambungannya di cni pula
2. surau kene simbah cat dan dibaling botol arak.. ~~takot kan?~~
ceritanya kat cni

Bazar Ramadhan

2010-08-23T09:10:00.001+08:00

Salam,

dulu2 masa blaja kat Muadzam, Pahang saya hanya membeli makanan berbuka + bersahur di bazar ramadhan dgn kwn2 saya.. hoho kat c2 jgk saya jumpa en Hubby
masa tu saya rasa makanan yg di beli semuanya sedap..bukan nampak je sedap tapi mmg rasa pon sedap..w/pon mahal sedikit takpe..saya sangat berpuasa hati..makanan pon tak basi..

tetapi sekarang kalau saya ke bazar ramadhan saya tengok makanan dan minuman yg di jual saya pon ragu2..sedap ke? bersih ke? cepat basi tak? sakit perot tak nanti? semua tu saya mst pk..

saya mmg tak pandai nak buat kuih..serius!!! tak pandai.. saya tau masak lauk sahaja.. biasala bulan puasa ni mst nak ada desert2 kan..kan..kan.. so, mst suami saya akan beli kuih kat bazar ramadhan.. tapi malang nya selain mahal + kecik ciput je kuihnya, kami jgk takkan habis sebab tak sedap..sekali lagi, serius ni.. kuih 3 seringgit tapi 3 tu alahai kecik kemain lagik dia potong.. kalau karipap (epok2 saya biasa panggil) kulit ja besar tapi inti sangatla sikit.. siap bole goncang2 lagik..nak rasa punya kosong tu..
then cepat basi makanannya...betol tak? penah tu saya cakap kat hubby last week
"belikan air sedap!!" oke, dia balik bwk air sedap tapi sepuluh kali saya + masuk toilet sebab sedap sangat..huhuhu

persoalannya,

peniaga di bazar ramadhan ni sebenarnya nak untung sahaja atau nak sama2 bantu umat islam yang berpuasa menikmati juadah enak semasa menyambut waktu berbuka? tambahan pulak dalam paper baru2 ni ada senarai hotel2 yang advertised pasal "buffet ramadhan" tapi sebenarnya tak halal.. betol tak saya cakap peniaga ni sebenarnya nak untung atau nak sama2 meraikan umat islam menyambut waktu berbuka??

Allah Taala kan da cakap yg mesti adil dan jujur dalam urusan jual beli atau muamalat.. ni bukan 5 tahun lepas baru kluar dalam buku akaun saya "accountablity" and "transperency" dalam Quran da sebut okeh!

sesiapa yag melanggar itu nescaya Tuhan akan balas perbuatannya..

persoalan kedua,

mungkinkah bazar ramadhan di landa ribut yang sering berlaku sekarang adalah tanda2 kekuasaan Allah yang sedang memberi peringatan kepada umat manusia tentang kesilapan dan kealpaan kita semua..

saya harap, peniaga2 di bazar ramadhan semuanya menjual dgn niat yg ikhlas dan berurusan secara jujur dan adil kepada semua pembeli..bukan mengaut untung semata2.. insyallah kalau kita jujur dan ikhlas, Allah akan beri ganjaran yang lebih besar untuk kita di dunia dan akhirat.. insyallah

=) jihan!

Mak Saya

2010-08-20T00:55:00.000+08:00

mak saya... Fatimah Bt Ahmad

Ya Allah..peliharala ibuku.. panjangkanla umurnya.. sihatkanla tubuh badannya.. datangkanla selera makannya.. permudahkanla segala urusannya... amin!

last week kan saya jaga mak kan.. okehla.nak cerita ni

mak selalu mengadu sakit perut, lapar n senak!.. (harap sume pahamla ape itu senak) hehe.. okeh.. kejap2 mak mintak buatkan quaker-oat.. so, saya buat..kdg2 bubur..kdg2 air susu + biskut.. mak selalu lapar..dia cakap dia rasa apa yg dia makan tak masuk ke perut..tapi bila makan je trus senak kat ulu hati. kesian sangat tengok mak mcm tu..kalau korg tengok cara mak telan mknan lagila nak nangis rasanya tau..dia main sumbat je semua patu mcm "buek!!" nak muntah.. kesianla..huhu

saya picit2 n letak minyak yu-yi kat perut n belakang mak.. ingatkan minyak yu-yi boleh melegakan ketidakhadaman dan kembung perut (iklan!)..tapi mak still tak oke.. makan ubt kapo (gastrik) pon tak jalan..huhu..

saya ajak g hosp.. mak mst tanya "g hospt Dr akan buat apa?" then bak plak asik cakap mak mcm tu sebab taknak makan n sebab ubat2 padahal mak da makan...

ari sabtu kul 12 tgh malam mak nak g klinik..saya kejut abang ipar + bak n trus bawak mak g klinik.. mak masuk emergency kat An-Nur bangi.. from 12.30-4am mak kat emergency sakit tak kurang selepas da beri mcm2 injection.. Dr buat x-ray rupanya paru2 mak ada air!! Ya Allah..rasa kesal sangat! kenapa sebelom ni masa mak mengadu saya tak bawak je mak g klinik.. saya bole just sapu2 minyak je..patutla mak menderita sakit kat ulu hati..rupanya paru2 da separuh masuk air..mak, adik sayang mak! mak kene paru-paru berair


mak dalam emergency An-Nur

bP segala..

DR decide bawak mak g PPUM n trus anta mak kat sana.. dalam kete mak lemah sangat..huhu takot.. kat emergency perot mak bole bergegar kuat sangat..nampak okeh!! Dr cakap maybe muscle mak yg gerak kuat sebab perot kosong..

sangat takot! kat PPUM bak tunggu mak.. from 4am- 230 ptg mak baru ke wad Cardiology n Dr beri injection utk mak kencing.. kluarkan air dalam paru2.. pasal perut pulak, Dr nak masukkan camera tengok maybe ada ulser sebab mak pedih kat perut...

today, mak da kluar hosp n dok umah angah, tadi call mak alhamdulilah dia sihat..perut tak sakit lagi cuma asik lapar sahaja..

nota:sakit jantung tak bole minum air lebih dari satu botol setengah air mineral kecik sehari..sebab jantung nak pump tak boleh sebab lemah!! itu benda yg sangat perlu di jaga..

saya berdoa agar mak sembuh dari segala penyakit yg dia alami..tak sanggup tengok mak menderita..Ya Allah kesian sangat.. huhuhu ~~(nangis)~~