Baby Cot Matress

oke, arini matress utk aisya da sampai =) mama mintak tolong grandma buatkan sampul matress aisya.. sian tengok aisya tido bersepah2.. kejap kat atas katil, kejap kat toto, kejap kat comfeter.. huhuh.. so, mama dgn officialnye membeli baby cot matress ni uk aisya baring3 n guling2 =) mama beli kat cni yer.. barang2 yang post kat cni mmg syok! hehe.. silala..

ini bentuk matress aisya.. mama pon lom tengok lagi saiznye sebab item post ke add umah granma kat sgmt.. so, isnin baru mama dapat tengok! =)

aisya suke tak nie?

posisi baby sling yg baru

hehe aritu da upload gambo posisi baring.. yg ni pule posisi baby kangroo =) samela.. si aisya kiter ni selip jer...hehe ni gambo mase nak kuar berjalan =)

halah2 manjenye Anak mama.. oke! promote, sile beli ye =) so far sangat membantu meringankan beban ku =)

baby sling.. mama da guna oke!

erm.. order katkasihkusayangku.com ari kamis n jumaat sampai kat depan rumah.. mama trus exited.. then semalam da start cuci n tak sabo plak..asik tengok kat ampai je bila nak kering..kekeke..

petang da pakai da.. so, sibukla carik kat tenet mana2 website yg show instruction sebab manual tak provide skali.. so, start with "getting started sampaila nak ngendong aisya".

 comment mama : erm.. mule2 mmg takot2 sebab tak biasa kan.. kekok sket n mama still guna tangan utk ampuh aisya. tapi da 2-3 kali cube, bestla.. aisya mmg tdo dalam tu.. betol kate testi2 yang mama da baca..
then, dia pon selesa.. seronok n berbaloila mama invest duit RM65 utk baby slings nie..hehehe.. mama bole buat keje pon bila ada baby sling ni.. tadi pagi bfast pon bole bawak aisya skali g dapo.. kalau tak, mama makan tak senang sebab aisya kat depan sorg2 n mama mkn kat dapo..huhu..

best2~




try bukak

TaylorMadeSlings
 

Getting Started / Threading the Sling
1. To thread your sling, begin by unfolding sling. Grasp the rings in one hand, and open the tail with the other hand. The inside of the sling, with the tag should be facing up.	2. Gather the tail with your hand, trying not to twist or fold it. It is better if the edges of the tail are on either side.	3. Insert tail through both rings.
4. Thread the fabric over the 1st ring then through the 2nd ring.	5. Properly threaded sling. Tail is hanging down	6. Decide which shoulder you would like your sling to rest. Start from the opposite side, with the tail hanging down. Put your arm through the sling and over your head. Most people have a favorite shoulder. Be sure to get comfortable using both shoulders so you will be able to wear your sling on either side.
7. Rest the sling on your opposite shoulder. Rings should just be in front of your shoulder or a little higher. Everyone has a different body structure and curve to their shoulder, so it might take a little bit of trial and error until you get proficient at placing the rings in the perfect spot.	8. Reach behind and spread your sling across your back. Make sure the sling is not twisted.	9. Reach underneath the shoulder folds and spread them across your shoulder.
10. You can quickly fix a twisted tail without re-threading your sling by pulling both edges of the tail away from each other.

   

baby sling ?

betol ke tindakan mama utk beli baby sling ni? huhu takotny!

tapi bila baca..
Ring Sling (KasihkuSayangku Comfort Baby Sling).
This is a piece of fabric which threads through two rings, forming a loop. Some rings have padding in the shoulder and in the edges (rails) for extra comfort, others are unpadded. The sling then goes over one shoulder and is fastened by pulling the fabric through the rings. The fabric covers much of the mother's body, so be sure to pick a colour that you will be happy to wear with most of your clothes.

Ring slings are good for vertical distribution of weight, and are quick to get on and off. The 'tail' material can be used for discreet breastfeeding, and many parents will be able to use the same size sling (except where there is a great difference in size between parents).They can seem too bulky for some people and padded slings can be more difficult to adjust.
Rings: Baby Carriers made using metal rings tend to slip and wear through the fabric. They may rust in the long-term and the welding that holds the metal ring together may give way. Wooden or plastic craft rings, glass-like rings, and rings made of crackly-sounding plastic, while usable, may also not be 100% safe over the long-term. Do note whether the rings have any joining lines that show a low-stress point that is liable to break. Kasihku Sayangku uses only fully molded nylon rings. Such rings are durable, can withstand weight, stress and countless washings in the washing machine & dryer. 

• It's convenient. You can breastfeed discretely in a sling while working, getting things done around the house, shopping or eating in a restaurant. If you have a baby who wants to be held all the time, this is an easy way to meet her needs while doing other things.

• It helps moms care for older siblings. Carrying your baby in a sling can give you the mobility to care for your older children.

• It helps some babies to breastfeed better. Some babies, particularly those who are tense or tend to arch their backs, breastfeed better while moving. Also, babies who are slow to gain weight (for no apparent reason) have been known to gain better if carried in a sling for several hours a day, since proximity to mom encourages babies to eat more frequently.

• It reduces crying and colic. A 1986 study of 99 mother-infant pairs (reported in Pediatrics) showed that carrying babies at least three hours a day reduces crying and fussing 43% during the day and 51% at night. Babies are happier because they have less need to cry, and parents enjoy their babies more as a result.

• It enhances learning. Carried babies have enhanced visual and auditory alertness, and increased "quiet alertness" times. Carrying a baby promotes cognitive development and speech development, since babies are exposed to more experiences and conversations.

• Carried babies are involved in their parents' world. They participate in life, rather than see it as a spectator.

• Carrying your baby promotes bonding and enhances parents' feelings of competence. A higher frequency of feeding and touching stimulates mothering hormones, and frequent carrying encourages and speeds the development of a mutual reading of each other's cues.

FREQUENT ASK QUESTION (FAQ)

I come across a parenting forum and one of the member share the following:

"In fact, I first bought baby carrier for my eldest daughter and suffer back pain after using it. My hand need to keep holding her neck afraid she will fall down. After we read the benefits and advantages of using Baby Sling (Ring version), we decide to give it a try for our second daughter. Now I must said, I'm loving it. I have no regret till now. Whenever I put on it when we go out especially to shopping mall, people always curios what is inside the sling and want to take a look. Sometimes I even heard they comment, 'no bad, it is a good way to carry baby'. Now my two hand is free. I can take a seat in MPH Bookstore and enjoy reading while my baby sleep comfortably in the sling.

I always heard the following comment on Baby Sling:

Baby Sling is expensive. RM 60 per sling is expensive? It depend. It depend how we view it values. I remember when I first bought baby carrier at Jaya Jusco sale, it cost me around RM 60 ++. Do you ever calculate, we spend around RM 42 per month on newspaper? Multiply by 12 months, how much we have spend on newspaper per year?

Baby sling is hard to use. I admit when I first bought Baby Sling, I also found it difficult to use but I never give out. Practice makes perfect. Can you recall your fist time try to ride on bicycle or learn to drive a car, do it found it difficult? Of course yes, but the more you practice, the more you master it, right?

My baby don't like it. From my experience, it has the same problem source with baby car seat. The earlier we train our baby to put her/him in the baby sling, in the car seat, the better, the faster he/she will adapt to it. I still can remember, when I first put my my eldest daughter in the car seat when she is 1 month+, her tears burst out immediately. But after few rounds, she start loving it. Same goes to baby sling. When we first put our second daughter in the sling when she is 2 months +, it take few days for her to get use to it. Now, whenever we put her in the sling, she tempt to go Z.z.z.z..z. very soon."

so? mama yang exited ni da beli pon.. nnt mama cube, kalau best, mama akan suggest n give my experience okey! huhu


sumenye sebab mlm tadi bawak aisya g shoping n mama carry aisya by hand jer. so mama tunjuk2 barang guna muncung mulut then ayah yang tolong pick up barang. bawang2 sume ayah yang pilih..huhu.. then mama tengok anak mama lena kalau tdo kene peluk mcm tu so kesian plak  tengok aisya.. mama pon kesian jgk sebab sakit tangan pegang lama2..hehehe...

lagi cerita mengenai "goncangan bayi"

SHAKEN BABY SYNDROME (SBS)

This is general info to be shared with everybody…(BEWARE)

General/Health Info…..

Pesakit terakhir yang kami ‘tidurkan’ ialah bayi berusia 4 bulan.   Bayi tersebut telah disyaki mendapat sawan pada pukul 2 petang tadi. Beliau sebelum ini sihat dan dijaga oleh pengasuh. Beliau tidak demam dan tidak batuk serta tidak mempunyai simptom-simptom yang lain.. I tulah kali pertama beliau mendapat sawan.  Sesampai di resus room (red zone), beliau masih lagi kelihatan mengantuk dan kurang responsif.  Beliau kelihatan pucat dan apa yang menakutkan kami ialah ubun-ubun depan beliau yang timbul dan mencembung (bulging). Memandangkan beliau tidak demam dan ujian menunjukkan beliau kurang darah (Hb 8g/dl), serta bayi tersebut masih kurang responsif selepas satu jam sawan, kami mengambil keputusan untuk melakukan CT scan otak ( Brain CT Scan).

Scan otak menunjukkan beliau mengalami pendarahan otak yang serius, Acute and Chronic Subdural Bleed with Subarachnoid bleed! Terkejut. Kali ini ibu bayi tersebut telah pun selamat tiba dari pejabatnya. Saya bertanyakan lagi sejarah kesihatan bayi tersebut. Satu-satunya cerita atau sejarah yang relevan ialah pengasuh bayi tersebut suka menimangnya tinggi-tinggi.  Bayi itu dikatakan sangat suka ditimang.

SBS merupakan kecederaan otak bayi disebabkan goncangan atau pergerakan kepala yang kuat. Boleh berlaku dalam tempoh sesingkat 5 saat pergerakan yang kuat. Kecederaan yang serius boleh menyebabkan kecacatan otak yang lama, serius dan kekal pada bayi.. Ianya berlaku apabila kepala bayi digoncang atau dihentak dengan objek walaupun objek lembut seperti bantal. Ada teori mengaitkan dengan pergerakan seperti menimang bayi, menaiki buaian serta memegang bayi ketika seseorang sedang marah atau bergaduh boleh menyebab berlakunya SBS. Sebab lain ialah penderaan bayi (child abuse) dan selalunya mempunyai kesan-kesan penderaan yang lain.

Perkara ini berlaku kerana kepala bayi mempunyai nisbah yang lebih besar berbanding badan mereka, leher yang lemah dan struktur otak yang masih belum matang serta lebih kandungan air berbanding orang dewasa.

Amalan menimang atau menggoncang sering dilakukan oleh penjaga terutama bila bayi tidak mahu berhenti menangis. Ada yang menimang bayi kerana untuk menenangkan bayi dan ada juga melakukannya ketika marah atau penat menjaga bayi….. (occupational stress ).

Ini bukanlah kes SBS pertama yang saya rawat. Sebelum ini saya juga pernah merawat seorang bayi di wad kanak-kanak yang mempunyai kecederaan otak yang serius dikhuatiri berpunca daripada menaiki buaian.

PENCEGAHAN

1.  Jangan sesekali menggoncang bayi anda ketika marah atau untuk bermain.

2.  Jangan memegang bayi anda ketika marah.

3.  Jikalau anda tidak dapat menenangkan bayi anda, lebih baik anda tinggalkan bayi anda untuk sementara waktu di dalam katil bayi atau kepada orang lain.

4.   Minta bantuan orang lain.

Maka, saya sangat berharap agar ibu bapa dan penjaga semua dapat mengambil serius dan peka tentang Baby Shaken Syndrome ini. Ianya bukanlah kes terpencil malah di Amerika Syarikat sebanyak 1500 kes dilaporkan setiap tahun. Mereka juga telah mengharamkan sebarang bentuk alat menggoncang bayi seperti buaian

buaian, bouncer net dan walker

Sindrom otak bayi bergegar.
Buaian paling kerap menyebabkan kecederaan bayi.

ELAKKAN bayi terlepas daripada dukungan atau buaian kerana ia boleh menyebabkan kecederaan serius.
Tahukah anda perbuatan menidurkan bayi di dalam buaian mendedahkan anak kecil itu kepada risiko kecederaan terutama di bahagian kepala jika si bayi terjatuh?

Menurut pakar pediatrik dan mantan Presiden Persatuan Pediatrik Malaysia, Datuk Dr. Zulkifli Ismail, menidurkan bayi dalam buaian sememangnya tidak digalakkan.

"Jangan terkejut jika diberitahu bahawa peratusan bayi yang dimasukkan ke wad akibat jatuh berpunca daripada buaian serta penggunaan alat bantuan berjalan (walker) adalah tinggi," katanya.

Malahan, bukan sekadar risiko jatuh atau terhantuk ke dinding, gegaran terhadap otak bayi turut boleh berlaku sekiranya henjutan buaian terlalu kuat

Jelas Zulkifli, sindrom gegaran bayi yang lazimnya berlaku pada bayi yang digoncang kuat turut ditemui pada bayi yang ditidurkan di dalam buaian.

"Hayunan dan henjutan buaian sudah cukup untuk mendedahkan bayi kepada kecederaan otak, termasuklah terhantuk pada dinding atau terhempas ke lantai.

"Perkara ini memang amat mudah berlaku pada bila-bila masa dan di mana sahaja," katanya.

Tambahnya, meskipun tiada kecederaan fizikal atau mental yang boleh berlaku pada masa hadapan akibat terjatuh daripada buaian, namun ia menjadi parah jika berlaku pendarahan dalam otak.

"Benjolan atau lebam (hematoma) yang wujud akibat jatuh harus dipandang berat oleh ibu bapa. Apatah lagi kalau ia diikuti muntah-muntah atau sawan.

"Keadaan tersebut menandakan kemungkinan ada bahagian tengkorak yang retak," katanya.

Menyentuh mengenai mudahnya bayi mendapat kecederaan kepala, Zulkifli menjelaskan ia bergantung kepada jenis permukaan serta jarak ketinggian anak itu jatuh.

Menurutnya, agak sukar gegaran otak untuk berlaku kerana otak manusia dilindungi oleh tempurung kepala dan dikelilingi cecair otak bagi melindunginya daripada gegaran atau impak yang kuat akibat terjatuh.

"Yang menjadikan keadaan bayi tersebut parah adalah apabila dia berusia kurang daripada 18 bulan kerana ubun-ubunnya masih lembut. Justeru, risiko untuk tempurung kepala tercedera agak besar," jelasnya.

Di samping itu, keadaan fizikal kepala bayi yang lebih besar dan berat daripada badan membuatkan mereka mudah terjatuh kepala dahulu kerana tidak dapat mengimbangi badan.

Jelas Zulkifli, bayi yang mula berjalan akan lebih banyak terjatuh. Ibu bapa harus memberi perhatian yang lebih pada peringkat ini.

"Bukan saja lebam disebabkan terhantuk malah tangan dan kaki mereka juga boleh patah dan terseliuh," katanya.

Menurut beliau, andaian yang mengatakan bayi tidur lebih lama di dalam buaian harus dikikis oleh ibu-ibu.

Ujarnya, jangan kerana tidak mahu diganggu ketika membuat kerja rumah, ibu-ibu mengambil langkah mudah dengan menidurkan bayi di dalam buaian.

"Tali pengikat, spring serta kain penyokong buai amat berbahaya. Andai salah satu tidak berfungsi, kebarangkalian bayi anda terjatuh atau dihempap spring atau besi sangat tinggi," katanya.

komen saya...

saya memang bercita2 taknak ada buaian atau ajar anak saya masuk dalam buaian.. saya beritahu angan2 saya pada suami.. tetapi suami kata dia dulu kecik2 pon naik buai, oke jer! hmm.. maknanya dia tak setujula kan..

saya ada bouncer sahaja, itupon untuk mengantikan buaian... nak compare bouncer n buai, bouncer lagi selamat kot.. kita nampak anak kita..dalam buai, kita tak nampak..

Buai atau bouncer nie memang x elok sbnrnya selain membebankan kita nak bawa gi mana2. lgpon kita kene buai sampai  bb tido.. kalau tk, dia nangis..bila tido, baru tak buai dia.. 

buai tu dtg bahaya kalau dia berayun terhnatuk ke dinding atau ke lantai, atau goncang terlebih. saya tak setuju bila org ajar saya yg baru beranak satu nie buai budak kuat2 semata2 nak suh dia diam dari nangis ataupon nak suh dia tido cepat. budak tu diam bkn sbb dia suka, dia terperanjat sbb x pernah buai. x pun pening sbb buai kuat sgt. 

sekarang aisya da pandai masuk buai.. hmm.. sudah!

so, ni 2 minggu terakhir di rumah mak mertua, saya nak ajar dia duduk dalam bouncer sahaja.. buai pon kadang2.. semalam dia tak masuk buai langsung.. amin, tak meragam.. kalau da tidur kat bouncer, saya akan angkat letak atas tilam.. amat menakutkan kalau dia da terbiasa dgn buai, bila kat rumah org dia taknak tidur n melalak.. sape yang susah? macam saya, di rumah mak saya di pontian takde buai dan kami adik beradik mmg tak naik buai... mak takut otak anak bergegar selain menyusahkan ibu untuk buai sebab anak akan mintak kita buai sepanjang masa.. nnt satu kerja pon tak jadi..

saya ni bila balik ke rumah saya semula, saya mahu siapkan thesis saya.. apela ceritanya kalau nak kene buai je sepanjang masa.. parah tu.. nanti keje tak siap, makanan pon saya tak dapat masak..

kalau kita x ajar, bdk2 xkan nak tdo dlm buai,so bagi yang belom ada anak, jgnla ajar anak masuk buai.. susah n bahaya..

saya berdoa agar anak saya tak ingat da buai bila da balik ke rumah kami.. amin !!

hadiah2 yang berjaya aisya kumpul dan menang!

hehe.. thanx tu pemberi hadiah anak saya.. seronok mama dia bukak present aisya.. hehehe.. ala tolong bukak jer.. nak pakai or guna kompemla tak muat..huhuhu..

ada lagi tapi bersepah2.. kat umah kami ada, kat umah mak saya pon ada.. upload bukan nak bangga oke.. cume nak appreciate pemberi hadiah.. tak lupe juga yang menyumbangkan wang ringgit..Terima kasih semua =))))

mau beli baby ring sling

Research shows that babies who are touched & cuddled frequently, cry & fuss less. Such content and alert babies show enhanced learning through contact and interaction with his caregiver. Our Baby Sling promote this style of parenting.

Following are some of the advantages of "wearing" your baby (from "The Baby Book" by William and Martha Sears):

• It's convenient. You can breastfeed discretely in a sling while working, getting things done around the house, shopping or eating in a restaurant. If you have a baby who wants to be held all the time, this is an easy way to meet her needs while doing other things.

• It helps moms care for older siblings. Carrying your baby in a sling can give you the mobility to care for your older children.

• It helps some babies to breastfeed better. Some babies, particularly those who are tense or tend to arch their backs, breastfeed better while moving. Also, babies who are slow to gain weight (for no apparent reason) have been known to gain better if carried in a sling for several hours a day, since proximity to mom encourages babies to eat more frequently.

• It reduces crying and colic. A 1986 study of 99 mother-infant pairs (reported in Pediatrics) showed that carrying babies at least three hours a day reduces crying and fussing 43% during the day and 51% at night. Babies are happier because they have less need to cry, and parents enjoy their babies more as a result.

• It enhances learning. Carried babies have enhanced visual and auditory alertness, and increased "quiet alertness" times. Carrying a baby promotes cognitive development and speech development, since babies are exposed to more experiences and conversations.

• Carried babies are involved in their parents' world. They participate in life, rather than see it as a spectator.

• Carrying your baby promotes bonding and enhances parents' feelings of competence. A higher frequency of feeding and touching stimulates mothering hormones, and frequent carrying encourages and speeds the development of a mutual reading of each other's cues.
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• kenapa  mahel sangat nie? huhuhuhu RM 168? wa... nnt kumpul duit dulu yer =p

mau beli tilam ini..

Hello!!

hehe.. gud news from en hubby.. kwn2 dia nak share belikan anak kami katil!.. yahoo!
so, semalam saya sibuk mencari tilam utk anak saya.. dan saya jumpa ini "safe lift universal crib wedge"

Pediatricians often recommend that parents elevate the head of baby's crib to help baby breathe easier and sleep more comfortably after eating. Safe Lift™ crib wedge can greatly improve baby's overall sleeping by raising baby's head to a more comfortable position, both for easier breathing and better digestion.

Just as a pillow works for an adult, Safe Lift crib wedge helps reduce the nasal congestion that results when a baby lies absolutely flat. This is especially important when your child has a cold.

Safe Lift crib wedge is the simple and ingenious solution to the problem. Simply position Safe Lift under the sheet at the head of the crib to gently elevate baby's head and upper body. The non-skid bottom will keep Safe Lift securely in place.

Best of all, your baby will breathe easier and feel better, and both you and your baby will get a better night's sleep.

* Gently elevates baby's head for easier breathing and better digestion
* Promotes sleeping position recommended by pediatricians
* Improves overall sleeping
* Helps relieve nasal congestion
* Great for toddlers in cribs or transitional beds
* Positions easily and securely under all standard crib sheets
* Non-skid bottom holds Safe Lift crib wedge in place for added security
* For year-round use

tapi jumpe kat amazon.com, walmart..huhu.. bagaimana nak beli ye? huhuhu.. sape2 bole ajar? huhu

Bumbo seat

saye nak beli ni utk baby la.. ada yang murah tak?

wishlist for my baby =)

+++ barang2 yang belom beli +++

CHECKLIST FOR BABY :
4. Kain Lampin
5. Diapers Newborn (vip)
6. Selimut baby (vip~nnt bb sejuk)
8. Bedding set+ pillow set (vip)
17. Baby vicks
18. Kelambu baby (vip)
20. Baby bag
21. Baby bath tub (vip)
22. Baby nail clippers
23. Baby comb hair
25. Susu formula
26. Gripple water utk elak kembung
27. Nappy rash creame (vip)
36. Flask for travelling 3
9. Drawer brg-brg baby

CHECKLIST FOR MOMMY :
5. Nipple Cream
8. Jeli gamat @ pati ikan haruan utk sembuhkan luka (vip)
15. called mak bidan utk urut masa pantang "semestinya saya memilih Mak Pah"

CHECKLIST FOR HOSPITAL BAG :
3. Kain Lampin
4. Diapers baby
5. Selimut Baby
8. Minyak telon & yu yee
15. Nipple cream

                                           (agak2nye baby dalam perot mama macam ni tak? hehehe)

shoping for baby

last wednesday i went shoping for my baby kat jusco!! rasanye ctu je tempat yang convinence and ada sume yang kite nak. haha guess what? i spent around RM450 for my baby.. tu baru barang2 seperti

1. set botol susu
2. tuala kecik n besar
3. set mandi n lotion
4. 5 helai baju (0-3 months)
5. mama things (stokin etc.)
6. sabun cuci baju bb
7. bath matt
8.


sikit jer tapi abis 450 sampai hubby tanya "Ape awk beli?" huhu..tu pon ada lagi tak beli tu.. hahaha..tapi along btau "dik, sekarang barang budak mmg mahal"

satu yang menakjubkan setiap kali pegang baju bb girl je baby tendang2 mama.. huhu.. kenapa bb? bb nak bgtau mama yang bb ni girl ke boy? haha.. sebab tak tau lagi yang kuar boy ke girl, mama beli sume barang n baju kaler puteh n biru =) hehe.. so bb bole pakai sumernye tau

then semalam da cuci sume baju bb.. wah, harummnye bau baju bb.. mcm bau bb. mama da tak sabar da ni..padahal baru je 29 weeks.. lebih kurang 9 weeks to go!!

in conclusion, mama amat berpuas hati sebab da beli barang penting untuk mama n baby.. tak payah nak pk da.. da siap packing da pon.. tinggal nak suh hubby bwk balik johor jer..

hope my baby will be happy